r/dashcams • • 13h ago

Karen doesn't know how to merge properly

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u/ChiliFriesNoBeans 13h ago

Just let people merge, even if they're being dicks. Too many hot-heads with dashcams who don't want to practice defensive driving and would rather speed up or have a collision in order to prove that they're right.

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u/Mathfanforpresident 12h ago edited 8h ago

I would agree except it doesn't look like they sped up to block them out. She could've merged right behind them. Also, If you listened to what she said, it appears they don't even understand the rules of how to merge.

Edit: speech to text butchered a word.

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u/bryan_skatezz 12h ago

you win 🏆 some people forget they can brake and go right behind you. if i see a car isn’t going to let me in i’ll just brake and go right behind them and move on with my day. it is NEVVVERRR that personal 😭

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u/zakificus 12h ago

Seriously, being one car forward or behind isn't going to change the quality of your drive overall.

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u/SwordfishOk504 12h ago

some people forget they can brake and go right behind you.

This goes for both idiots in this video.

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u/Mathfanforpresident 8h ago

I don't understand how you're calling the person with the camera an idiot for legitimately driving in his correct lane, going the correct speed, following the rules of the road.

What an ignorant take.

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u/petroleum-lipstick 4h ago

Because OP has two eyeballs and it was incredibly obvious the car was about to make a dangerous move. Just because other people are stupid around you doesn't mean you don't have a responsibility to be aware of that and respond appropriately.

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u/DiablosBostonTerrier 11h ago

It's just the ones that pass in the break down lane for me. I'll box them out all day long. Double fuck those guys 

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u/Nizdaar 11h ago

Wait, you're telling me that I can use the left pedal to slow my car down a tiny bit and go *behind* another vehicle? When was that feature added to vehicles? /s

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u/KitnBlit 12h ago

But he absolutely refused to hit the brakes when it was clear she was coming ready or not.

When you on a bike try to fight someone in a car, the only one who wins is the injury lawyer who is chasing your ambulance.

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u/Aegi 8h ago

Refused, or just didn't?

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u/KitnBlit 4h ago

You say that like there's a difference

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u/Aegi 3h ago

There is.

Different things can still lead to the same outcome, but that doesn't negate the existence of a difference.

One example of this is the difference between "0" and a "statistically insignificant difference" (so > or < 0).

Even if you think the difference doesn't matter, that is different than no difference at all.

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u/KitnBlit 3h ago

That's a whole lot of words to type to convey zero information. If you have a point, maybe try again?

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u/Aegi 3h ago

Why did you respond if I added nothing?

And I do have a point.

Please tell me which part confuses you so that I can elaborate!

Different things can still lead to the same outcome, but that doesn't negate the existence of a difference.

Or, a statistically insignificant is not the same as no difference.

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u/KitnBlit 3h ago

So there's a difference that's completely irrelevant and unimportant. Why should I care?

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u/Aegi 2h ago

That is a personal question, but I am glad that you agree with me at least!

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u/KitnBlit 2h ago

I agree your original comment was stupid and irrelevant. And every subsequent comment was just as stupid. I suppose I could ask a personal question about why you do that. But I don't particularly care

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u/PleaseDontFireMoi 12h ago

Since when does the flowing traffic have to bend over for merging traffic? Turn in your license

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u/KitnBlit 11h ago

I mean the OP obviously didn't, right? He decided to get mad and fight that car while riding on a motorcycle.

But I absolutely would just slow down and let them in. Because I don't want a bad driver to crash into me. I don't care about "winning" I want to get where I am going in one piece.

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u/PleaseDontFireMoi 8h ago

That’s you, legally he doesn’t have to and trying to act like he did something wrong will only end in additional bad drivers

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u/KitnBlit 4h ago

legally he doesn’t have to

Legally you can walk down a dark alley at midnight in a bad part of town. But I'm not gonna.

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u/PleaseDontFireMoi 3h ago

Ok thanks for sharing

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u/KitnBlit 3h ago

Legally you can try to jump your motorcycle over the grand canyon. But I'm not gonna. Just because something is legal don't make it a smart thing to do.

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u/BeardedPaladin 11h ago

Power tripping like this results in crashes

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u/PleaseDontFireMoi 8h ago

Idiots that can’t merge causes crashes. Don’t defend bad drivers

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u/BeardedPaladin 7h ago

Not defending anyone, they are both displaying dumb ways to drive

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u/casinos-r-us 11h ago

When they don’t want to crash because someone decides their ego says they go first no matter what the rules say. You can be right all you want that wouldn’t matter, you’d still be in a wreck.

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u/PleaseDontFireMoi 8h ago

And you’d still pay for it. Don’t be a dumb fuck and excuse bad driving

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u/Emergency_Revenue678 9h ago

"Go with the flow of traffic" is the refrain of bad drivers the world over.

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u/Sonikku_a 8h ago

You’re arguing law vs reality.

It don’t matter what the law says if you being in the right could potentially put you in a hospital or morgue.

The amount of you weirdos willing to risk injury and life because you’d rather prove a point than hit the brake and continue on with your day is ridiculous

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u/PleaseDontFireMoi 8h ago

Pretty sure law trumps your feelings

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u/Sonikku_a 8h ago

Pretty sure killing myself to prove how right the law says I am is literally fuckin retarded.

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u/Anxious-Web6935 10h ago

He 100% sped up. Thats why he clipped the video. When it starts there are at least 4 lines between him and the box truck, after he clipped it only 1.

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u/elbow-macaroni-42 12h ago

Driving is a cooperative activity. She could have merged behind them. And the dash cam recorder could have let them merge in front.

Nobody has any moral high ground here.

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u/mazula89 12h ago

Except she is leaving her lane to go in his. He has right of way

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u/SwordfishOk504 12h ago

He has right of way

The mating call of the idiot with dents all over their car and a massive deductible.

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u/BeardedPaladin 11h ago

Bingo, lots of hotheads in here shouting about being right.

They can be right all the way to the hospital after getting hit

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u/SwordfishOk504 9h ago

It's all teenage boys whose entire experience of driving is GTA. Or accounts driving engagement maybe.

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u/RandomDave70 12h ago

Plenty of motorcyclists in the graveyard who had the right of way. It's just not worth it.

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u/StewieSWS 12h ago

So what, let assholes stay assholes on the road and endanger others because "it's not worth it"?

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u/Smelly_God 10h ago

Not the job of a motorcyclists to teach people lessons, weird take.

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u/BeardedPaladin 11h ago

Is death worth it to you?

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u/AbrahamKMonroe 11h ago

If being right also means being dead, then yeah. Unless you want to sacrifice your life to send a single terrible driver to jail and change nothing else.

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u/RandomDave70 12h ago

Yes. There's always going to be assholes on the road, don't try to beat them at their own game or it just adds to the 'assholes on the road' total.

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u/Past-Shop5644 5h ago

I've become increasingly convinced this is the source of a lot of frustration in the world. Too many people thinking they're standing up for their principles and their code for petty unimportant shit. Not every interaction is a threat to moral order, just fucking take the L and move on.

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u/No_Criticism_5861 12h ago

Depends on the state believe it or not

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u/elbow-macaroni-42 12h ago

Yes he does. But I’m also pretty sure his family would rather he not be “right but dead”.

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u/pusch85 12h ago

Having Right of Way doesn’t prevent accidents or accident related injuries.

A good driver will recognize a dumbass behind a wheel and simply ease up on the throttle to assist.

Like another commenter said, driving is a cooperative activity.

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u/Comrade_Falcon 12h ago

Riding a motorcycle requires not having an ego if you want to do it safely because way too often you're left with the choice of being right vs being safe. This is one of those occasions. Like absolutely the motorcycle had the right to that lane, but at what point is it even worth it?

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u/scottyjrules 12h ago

Right of way still exists.

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u/LithiumLizzard 12h ago

Yes, the concept of right of way exists , but it is often treated in these subs as something a person possesses, as though a driver, cyclist, or pedestrian can say, “I have the right of way,” and therefore proceed regardless of what others are doing.

Right of way is part of a cooperative system of yielding. Traffic rules establish who yields to whom when paths conflict. One person’s priority arises because another person has a duty to yield, not because the first person owns an absolute right to proceed.

That distinction matters because everyone still has a responsibility to avoid a collision when reasonably possible, even when someone else was legally required to yield. In that sense, right of way is less like possessing a right and more like an agreed set of rules for deciding who waits and who goes so that everyone can move safely and predictably.

When someone goes out of turn, as the car driver did here, it is not a personal affront to the motorcyclist, nor did she steal some possessed right from him. She absolutely should have yielded. When she didn’t, he should have dropped behind and gone on with his day without making a dangerous situation worse by fighting over it.

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u/scottyjrules 12h ago

She was running him off the road when merging. It’s. Pretty cut and dry who is in the wrong here. The police apparently agree because they ticketed her for breaking the law.

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u/LithiumLizzard 11h ago

Funny, I could have sworn I said that as part of my comment. She behaved illegally. That doesn’t mean he behaved well.

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u/lemonylol 12h ago

So does getting obliterated by a car on a motorcycle because you refuse to acknowledge reality

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u/Boattailfmj 10h ago

Notice part of the video is cut and suddenly the bike is closer to the box truck?

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u/MaggotMinded 7h ago

There is plenty of time for him to slow down and let her in ahead of him. And that’s not even including the surreptitious cut at about 4 seconds into the video.

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u/stonecuttercolorado 12h ago

She was ahead the entire video. He should have moved in behind

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u/stonecuttercolorado 12h ago

At a merge, both lanes are equal

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u/SwordfishOk504 12h ago

it doesn't look like they sped up to block them out.

lolwut?