So what some of y'all don't seem to understand, is that you want women to walk through the world with an "all men" mentality. "She should have known not to put herself into that position." "She shouldn't have been drinking." "She shouldn't have been wearing that." Etc. The implication is, she should have known that MEN can't control themselves. That any situation involving men, alcohol, drugs, walking at night, etc is her not being smart enough around men. So either women are supposed to think it's all men so she doesn't get assaulted, or she can be naive and say it's not every man and get assaulted. Saying it's "not all men" is invalid because women have to treat the world like it is all men otherwise those same men will say it's her fault for being assaulted.
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u/kittymcg19 3d ago
So what some of y'all don't seem to understand, is that you want women to walk through the world with an "all men" mentality. "She should have known not to put herself into that position." "She shouldn't have been drinking." "She shouldn't have been wearing that." Etc. The implication is, she should have known that MEN can't control themselves. That any situation involving men, alcohol, drugs, walking at night, etc is her not being smart enough around men. So either women are supposed to think it's all men so she doesn't get assaulted, or she can be naive and say it's not every man and get assaulted. Saying it's "not all men" is invalid because women have to treat the world like it is all men otherwise those same men will say it's her fault for being assaulted.