Let's see where this goes😆

I'm 28M and I'm looking for a fwb kind of relationship, I'm currently working and I'm only free on weekends. I stay in Utawala and if you stay within, feel free to hit me up.

Hey you. M4F here. Am 29, 5'4", affectionate, and a little intense. Currently in Nakuru and looking for something serious, a monogamous relationship with someone I genuinely click with and can eventually build a life with. Cycling is my first love. I like nature, photography, cooking, reading, sunsets, a good series, and planning little trips to places I haven't been to. I'm happy to go exploring, and just as happy to stay in and be cozy. I'm hoping to meet someone around 25 to 35 who is affectionate and intentional. Child-free is a must for me. Long distance is fine if we're both genuinely interested in meeting and seeing where it goes.

A guy dmed me and gave me a quotation that I was quite happy with( I sell or sold idk). We agreed to meet up when he came back from his business trip like 2 weeks after our conversation. Sadly I met some guy and we clicked and it was nice until it wasn't. While it was nice, the guy came back and asked to meet up. I declined cause I saw something in my current endeavour. Long story short that piece of shit just wasted my time. Didn't hit though cause he can't pay for p***y allegedly and I don't give for free just after meeting so he started being distant. Which is okay for me, free will and shii.

I wish I wasn't so dumb and let the other one go.🥲 If you have generational wealth DM. I can perform magic tricks to make it disappear 😝...

I'm curious. If you have hebu share your story.

Tuambie how the relationship went

Hey guys how do you actually get talk to a girl you really like. Like hear me out Im 23M had my fair number of girlfriends (2)but for each we had things we were doing that we both like found our selves in the same place often.. we now I started life and I’m kinda confused like i see a girl i really like but cold approaching just gives off a weird vibe which has just made me miss some chances also you can cold approach a girl she gives you her number then later on she asks for money which is just cheap talk of i don’t like you but you can pay … like honestly i really see guys in the streets with their loved ones and I’m honestly confused like where to you find a bond like this man.

Hey, I’m m25, 5’9 without shoes💀dark skinned, Nairobi based. Law student by day, music producer/media page admin by night. I’m financially independent, so no strings, just chemistry.
I’m into older women because confidence is the sexiest thing there is. You know what you like, you say it, and you don’t play games. I’d rather spend a slow Sunday with that energy than a whole week of small talk.

You: 27-38, 5’7” and under, petite or slim-thick, and preferably no kids. You’re warm, a little dangerous, and you laugh at your own jokes (I will too).
Me: loyal, funny, a good listener, and I’ll talk your ear off about music n my autistic interests😏😂
If you’re intrigued, DM me ASAP

Most of you mnateswa na mapenzi just because you dont have an abundance mentality. Back in campus i was seeing this girl who was so terribls as a partner yet didnt want to let me go but one day nikajitoa in that situation.

I realised that i had only dated 3 women at the time, so my experience was very limited, turns out kulikuwa na prettier, more caring, loving partners out there. But my focus was so limited i couldnt see it. The more time ypu waste with someone who doesn't care about you the longer you will take to heal.✌️

I am a 30M looking for a relationship be it casual or something serious..if U r in Nairobi link up am straight as an arrow so .. only females....

When I joined Reddit I thought this app was mainly younger people. I dismissed it many times as an app for university students and people below 25 years old so at times I felt I’m too old (I’m 27M).

Now tell me why when I post here looking for a lady my DMs are 90% women 26-32yrs old reaching out?? My preference is 23-25yrs

Maybe I’m the temptation you’ve both been curious about… 🖤

Sensual by nature. Open-minded by choice. Curious enough to explore what happens when chemistry exists between three people.

I’m drawn to couples who have a strong connection, confidence, discretion, and a playful sense of adventure. I’m not interested in rushing into anything—I prefer the anticipation, the conversations, the subtle glances, and discovering whether that irresistible spark is really there.

I’m not looking to complete anything that’s missing. I’m looking for something different… something mutual, exciting, and unforgettable.

If you’re both curious, confident, and know how to keep a little mystery alive… perhaps we should talk. ✨🖤

Mimi nikiwa fresher third year amewai approach dem yangu, akamkatia nikiwa hapo. Nilitaka kutupa ngumi but the guy was huge, nilisimama kando ya dem kama apostrophe lakini msee hakuona kama naweza possess huyo dem...

Alafu kitu ilikuwa inauma sana ni vile msee alikuwa celeb wa campo, so dem ana blush aki cheka cheka akiogopa kupeana straight answer juu niko hapo... In short, nilijua dem ako box yake tayari ni uoga tu alikuwa nayo😭

Heyyy I’m 21f n i am looking for some friends preferably my age so like from 21-25 both genders will be great.I’m looking for someone we will vibe when texting n just have a good time.

The money they get from their parents isn't enough to sustain the kind of lifestyle they want to live, so to keep up they resort to other means of getting money.

Most turn into thieves stealing money and belongings from their friends when invited to their houses, others monetize their bodies to suitors at some fee, others scam unwary youngins and milk money out of them.(simps)

Girls like this always set standards with people else's money and don't date guys in their early 20s saying they aren't mature but in real sense, they are "broke" . They always settle for married men, their morals are questionable. But what do I know?

I would literally sell my soul for KES 1 million 😭😭😭

I know that this is the situation for most Kenyans but wueeh. Everything has become so expensive and life is so hard rn and I feel like I'm out of options here.

Left my relationship because you can't even enjoy anything together, everyone is caught up in the hustle and the stress that comes with it.

Like WTF!!! Simamisha hii dunia nishuke. Fvck this shiii.

As you were. 😌😌

End of rant.

As a super tall dude 6'5 Nairobi is full of short girls sadly, where are the tall babes in this city? And I mean 5'8 and up...

24m secret sissy looking for a guy I can explore with. If you are open minded let’s chat and see where it goes.
I’m not Kenyan but I’m in Kenya

Body wants SEX

Heart wants LOVE

Soul needs PEACE

Mind wants SUCCESS

Eyes want SLEEP

Ego wants VALIDATION

Childhood wants HEALING

Life wants PURPOSE

Loneliness wants COMPANY

Past wants CLOSURE

I've been looking for more friends to chat with. Trying to talk with people more. Kuongea tu si dating stuff. Online friends. Dm if interested.

Before anyone jumps to conclusions, hear me out.She tells me that she and her husband are separated. According to her, they no longer sleep together, the marriage is basically dead, and her husband has cheated on her several times. She says she has no interest in continuing the relationship with him, although they haven’t officially divorced. She is employed and, from what she has told me, her husband currently pays most of the household bills and the child’s school fees. She uses her own salary to further her education. I’m not permanently employed at the moment, but I don’t depend on her financially. I don’t ask her for any financial support neither does she. What she gives me is mainly emotional support. She is very loving, loyal, jovial, and supportive. She’s there for me when I need someone. We have a really good connection, including sexually, and honestly, I’ve fallen in love with her. But lately, I’ve started asking myself where exactly are we taking this relationship?

Sometimes I think, Should I really put 100% of myself into this relationship? Is there actually a future here? Could she eventually divorce her husband of nearly ten years and completely and come live with me? Could this relationship eventually lead to marriage? Or am I setting myself up to get hurt? We've dated for a full year now and my biggest fears is that I could spend years with her believing that we're building something, only for her to eventually leave me.I genuinely haven't seen any major fault in her. So, Reddit, I’m asking for honest advice.If you were in my exact situation, what would you do?

Najua ni late 😂

So when you guys get intimate who sets the intensity level? (Rough or Gentle)

Because I think this is something that should be well communicated with both parties before the deed.The man should clearly state what he's into and so should the lady.

The biggest mistake people do is blindly getting intimate with someone without caring or knowing what they are truly into abit weird and boring if you ask me.

But I honestly think we as men should be the ones giving out pleasure more.Listen to what you woman says...if she likes her hair pulled,chocked,spanked a finger in the ass bro you have to fit in that character 😂 there are no other options and if she's a pillow princess you have switch it up and treat her like she can break.

But again all this works from open communication,open mindedness and let your woman direct you when to touch,how to touch it and what to do this is a 2player game ngl.So ladies should give us directives too.

Moral of the story is that we have to switch up to any character our ladies want us to be,today we are trying to break the bed and tomorrow we are doing it on top of a stool.

wantam

Msichana mmoja ajitolee anipende nipate wa ku recite poems for them😅 na kuwaambia mundane things about engineering aki😅

Is it just my (M33) side of Diani that feels so dead at night? Outside of restaurants there's literally nothing to do - or am I just getting it wrong?

Where's everybody at?