When I joined Reddit I thought this app was mainly younger people. I dismissed it many times as an app for university students and people below 25 years old so at times I felt I’m too old (I’m 27M).

Now tell me why when I post here looking for a lady my DMs are 90% women 26-32yrs old reaching out?? My preference is 23-25yrs

Before anyone jumps to conclusions, hear me out.She tells me that she and her husband are separated. According to her, they no longer sleep together, the marriage is basically dead, and her husband has cheated on her several times. She says she has no interest in continuing the relationship with him, although they haven’t officially divorced. She is employed and, from what she has told me, her husband currently pays most of the household bills and the child’s school fees. She uses her own salary to further her education. I’m not permanently employed at the moment, but I don’t depend on her financially. I don’t ask her for any financial support neither does she. What she gives me is mainly emotional support. She is very loving, loyal, jovial, and supportive. She’s there for me when I need someone. We have a really good connection, including sexually, and honestly, I’ve fallen in love with her. But lately, I’ve started asking myself where exactly are we taking this relationship?

Sometimes I think, Should I really put 100% of myself into this relationship? Is there actually a future here? Could she eventually divorce her husband of nearly ten years and completely and come live with me? Could this relationship eventually lead to marriage? Or am I setting myself up to get hurt? We've dated for a full year now and my biggest fears is that I could spend years with her believing that we're building something, only for her to eventually leave me.I genuinely haven't seen any major fault in her. So, Reddit, I’m asking for honest advice.If you were in my exact situation, what would you do?

Msichana mmoja ajitolee anipende nipate wa ku recite poems for them😅 na kuwaambia mundane things about engineering aki😅

Title says it all really, forty year old irish farmer living in a remote area in the north of Ireland. In my area of the world everyone is used to living the way their grandparents did and their grandparents before them so I’d consider myself relatively sheltered to the larger world and the only women I’ve ever known have all been farmers themselves or farmers daughters but I’ve always fascinated by Kenyan women when I saw a number of them in traditional clothing when I visited my counties capital! Would love to chat

Just trying to see how normal it is for someone to have a VERY inaccurate depiction of how the relationship ended and still holding on to their version with no accountability but wanashida wakiongelelea accountability or lack there of in women.

Hapa mtu anaweka mambo yenu mtandaoni, hajui unaona but God forbid you seek comfort with your friends on the same! Na mambo yanawekwa ni kama hio mapenzi ilikua ya vuisasa juu there's no respect for you or the relationship.

A guy dmed me and gave me a quotation that I was quite happy with( I sell or sold idk). We agreed to meet up when he came back from his business trip like 2 weeks after our conversation. Sadly I met some guy and we clicked and it was nice until it wasn't. While it was nice, the guy came back and asked to meet up. I declined cause I saw something in my current endeavour. Long story short that piece of shit just wasted my time. Didn't hit though cause he can't pay for p***y allegedly and I don't give for free just after meeting so he started being distant. Which is okay for me, free will and shii.

I wish I wasn't so dumb and let the other one go.🥲 If you have generational wealth DM. I can perform magic tricks to make it disappear 😝...

I would literally sell my soul for KES 1 million 😭😭😭

I know that this is the situation for most Kenyans but wueeh. Everything has become so expensive and life is so hard rn and I feel like I'm out of options here.

Left my relationship because you can't even enjoy anything together, everyone is caught up in the hustle and the stress that comes with it.

Like WTF!!! Simamisha hii dunia nishuke. Fvck this shiii.

As you were. 😌😌

End of rant.

24m secret sissy looking for a guy I can explore with. If you are open minded let’s chat and see where it goes.
I’m not Kenyan but I’m in Kenya

I'd say mine is Mutual watching/Mutual masturbati*n and this is when both partners pleasure themselves together, often while watching each other whether physically or virtually.

Something that I'm yet to explore ofcourse.Just think of it watching your partner getting all slippery for you and doing everything you tell her and the best part is actually the watching and seeing all this.

A beautiful scene and a beautiful mess if you ask me but they also have to enjoy watching me too and dirty talking each other and If it's virtual she can place the phone between her legs and watch it pretending it's there.

Pretty hot.

What a beautiful form or art and intimacy uurgh!

wantam

Heyyy I’m 21f n i am looking for some friends preferably my age so like from 21-25 both genders will be great.I’m looking for someone we will vibe when texting n just have a good time.

As a super tall dude 6'5 Nairobi is full of short girls sadly, where are the tall babes in this city? And I mean 5'8 and up...

Body wants SEX

Heart wants LOVE

Soul needs PEACE

Mind wants SUCCESS

Eyes want SLEEP

Ego wants VALIDATION

Childhood wants HEALING

Life wants PURPOSE

Loneliness wants COMPANY

Past wants CLOSURE

I've been looking for more friends to chat with. Trying to talk with people more. Kuongea tu si dating stuff. Online friends. Dm if interested.

Najua ni late 😂

So when you guys get intimate who sets the intensity level? (Rough or Gentle)

Because I think this is something that should be well communicated with both parties before the deed.The man should clearly state what he's into and so should the lady.

The biggest mistake people do is blindly getting intimate with someone without caring or knowing what they are truly into abit weird and boring if you ask me.

But I honestly think we as men should be the ones giving out pleasure more.Listen to what you woman says...if she likes her hair pulled,chocked,spanked a finger in the ass bro you have to fit in that character 😂 there are no other options and if she's a pillow princess you have switch it up and treat her like she can break.

But again all this works from open communication,open mindedness and let your woman direct you when to touch,how to touch it and what to do this is a 2player game ngl.So ladies should give us directives too.

Moral of the story is that we have to switch up to any character our ladies want us to be,today we are trying to break the bed and tomorrow we are doing it on top of a stool.

wantam

Is it just my (M33) side of Diani that feels so dead at night? Outside of restaurants there's literally nothing to do - or am I just getting it wrong?

Where's everybody at?

Met this girl,,,Nilikuwa namspoil from fast and she let me hit...We dated for a month and then akasema hawezani na relationship..I told her it's okay ,although we've been in touch...Sai she is texting me ati anataka nimspoil

I'm in this talking stage, tumeongea for a good time now like 3weeks, Leo sasa namwona na ex wake, eeish magoti imeisha nguvu bana. Ikabidi nikae chini kwanza, Guys nyi mnaeza endelea kweli, ku put in that effort tena. Anyway mi nishapata jibu yangu. Lkini Mbona mbona mbona🎶🎶

22 female looking for a guy to have casual hangouts that could lead to something sensual between us.

Preferably not above 33 . I'm in embu.

Met this babe through a friend at a BnB. We clicked almost immediately and somehow went from shy small talk to having her titty in my mouth on day one. 😂

That was 2 years ago.

Since then, it’s been an on-and-off situation. She calls when she wants D, I show up, we disappear, then somehow find our way back to each other.

She wanted a relationship at one point, but I wasn't interested.

Now I actually want to date seriously, fall in love and meet other people. The problem? I keep going back because it’s

convenient.

Recently she got an IUD and now wants us to spice things up by bringing another babe for a threesum.

I'm tempted, but I once showed her a 🌽 with another babe and could literally see the jealousy loading. 😭

So now I'm wondering:

Do I spice things up and risk turning this into a Kenyan telenovela, or finally cut things off and move on?

Because two years of “casual” is starting to look suspiciously like a relationship with no title. 😂

What would you do?

#wantam

I met sb on this subreddit while on a different account that has now been deleted. I don't remember your username,hauna simu and we were to meet at the akili ni nywele exhibition though I didn't show up that day....i miss our conversations nitafute we mzee😭🫵🏾

How does a nigga like me; educated, fine boy, resourceful, not broke: still can't keep a woman fascinates me.

The issue after continued introspection, compatibility. I want a lady who understands the world, not easily manipulated and not manipulative, educated and ready for something long term. My major drawback is attracting people who just obsess over you but lack critical thinking to not merely just be reactive but intuitive. Someone who can talk through a difficult situation and be committed to working things out not just escaping hard conversations.

Anyways, I think I'm willing to work sthg long distance but with compatibility rather close but incompatible. Mambo ni mingi mahn, ama nijiumbie tu wangu 🤣

Whats up with Kenyans and an aversion to public displays of affection ?

I love to touch on my woman in non sexual ways and sexual ways, everywhere.

Im the type of nigga who will make out on the first date in public when the sun is out. I have big hands so I love to grab cheeks too.

I find it an easy way to keep fanning the flames in the relationship. And it works for the woman too, cause once I stop touching on you we just know things ain’t going well.

The average Kenyan woman albeit not being opposed to PDA, rarely reciprocates and is super shy 😂

Not to mention the weird stares from the other wananchi🤣.

Do you guys indulge in PDA and to what degree?

Hey everyone 👋🏽
I’m 27M, single, and putting myself out there to see where this goes. Honestly, I’m looking to meet someone I genuinely connect with — someone I can talk to about random things, laugh with, have meaningful conversations with, and hopefully build something real with.
A little about me: I’m working, ambitious, family-oriented, and I enjoy good conversations, music, gaming, going out occasionally, and just enjoying the little things in life. I can be a little quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable, I’m definitely more talkative. 😂
I’m not looking for perfection or someone who has their entire life figured out. I value honesty, kindness, loyalty, communication, affection, and a good sense of humor. Someone I can joke around with, have deep conversations with at 2 a.m., go out with, stay in with, and just enjoy being around.
I’m not expecting to find my soulmate through one Reddit post 😂, but I’d genuinely like to meet someone I enjoy talking to and see where things naturally go. Ideally, I’d love for it to develop into something meaningful, but I’m happy to start with a conversation and take it from there.
If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, feel free to send me a DM. Tell me a little about yourself — your interests, what you’re looking for, or even something random about you.
Let’s see if Reddit can actually do something useful for once. 😂❤️

Looking for cute girls around Mombasa Rd.Kibwezi area.

For context; I just relocated to these side, 3 months na bado sijapata Rafiki😅.