r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • 3d ago

Discussion "It's all men until it's no men"

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u/Cautious_Buy_8467 3d ago

50+ MEN SAW THE GROUPCHAT AND WERE AWARE OF WHAT WAS HAPPENING TO HER AND DID NOTHING

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u/Ok_Table_876 3d ago

50 men that were all in the same frat. Picked by the people in the frat. Being in the frat for similar reason.

It's like going into a prison and being surprised that everybody is a convicted felon.

The men that are willing to stand up are the men that are not in the frat because they know it is a shitshow.

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u/Baron_Bearclaw 3d ago

I mean... The fraternity I was in wouldn't stand for that. We caught a guy jerking himself watching someone who had passed out, he was expelled from the fraternity within the week. We couldn't legally evict him from the premises for a month, but he wasn't allowed anywhere in the house other than his room, the laundry room, and the kitchen.

We also banned a 26 year old alumnus who kept showing up at parties to pick up Freshmen women, especially in the fall. He was restricted to only coming to our weekly chapter meeting and if it was a brothers only alumni event.

When I was in chapter leadership I made it my responsibility to make sure anyone (male or female) walked home with someone they trusted. I'm sure I missed a few during that year, but we tried to do our best.

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u/JudgeFondle 3d ago

I mean, I don't think they we're trying to say all frats are a problem, just that they can be. That problematic people can and will begin to self select and form a group.
It's good to hear about fraternities that are filled with well-meaning people. I know I don't need to say those are a minority, at least in terms of cultural visibility anyway.

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u/Natalwolff 2d ago

No, it's all fraternities until it's no fraternities.