r/PoursTea • 🫖 Mod ☕️ • 11d ago

FeministTea👩🏻‍🎓👩🏿‍⚖️👠🥾 Unwanted Attention🐙🐸

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u/hyphenssuck 11d ago

I can assure you, as someone who was "raised to be a certain way" but didn't turn out as intended... There is no nature vs nurture argument to be had in terms of these types.

My views (concerningly) may be considered extreme by some, but...

If an adult human can't manage their behavior in this most basic capacity, abiding by the concept of consent, they should not be given the same consideration. Making excuses for this behavior needs to end.

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u/SaltySelkie217 11d ago

Exactly so. My personal theory is that it starts with misguided, hamhanded religious doctrination from infancy. You can f up in any way imaginable, but the skydaddy will forgive you so it's "all good" .

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u/hyphenssuck 11d ago

There's also the underlying misogyny... Which in many cases also ties back to "skydaddy". But that's a whole separate conversation.

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u/SaltySelkie217 11d ago

Agreed. The "My phallus sword means I am powerful and am designed to dominate" crew are equating superiority to ...basically putting a shape puzzle piece in the correct spot. It's no indicator of superiority.