r/AskReddit • u/AuthorConfident9386 • 14h ago

Men, what’s one small, seemingly insignificant thing you’ve noticed that can be a telltale sign of the difference between a genuinely good man and a bad one?

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u/bleYleng21 13h ago

How they lose

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u/Jonseroo 12h ago

I'm not sure about this one. My wife is a supremely kind, fair, ethical person, but she went to bed without talking to me last week after I beat her high score at Yahtzee.

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u/ThrowingShaed 2h ago

i dont know if its definitive. i dont know if we dont all have occasional stumbles. is it a point of pride thing? her thing? you dont need to answer, im just wondering. im assuming you didnt go... overboard on celebrations and get a flag thrown for taunting, but i guess i would wonder if.. was the framing you vs her? collaborative? neither? im just... thinking maybe times retroactively i should have thanked people around me for even small successes.. maybe... not sure... thinking more in theory because my brain too blank on specifics