r/AskReddit • • 13h ago

Men, what’s one small, seemingly insignificant thing you’ve noticed that can be a telltale sign of the difference between a genuinely good man and a bad one?

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u/banksy_h8r 12h ago edited 12h ago

Their humor comes at the expense of others. This can be blatant but it can also be subtle.

If you can't get a laugh without making someone feel bad you're not funny, you're just a cruel asshole.

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u/tyen0 3h ago

I think an exception can be made for friends, though. Not so subtly insulting each other can be bonding, too. :) I take your caveat that if it's the only method, though.