r/AskReddit • • 13h ago

Men, what’s one small, seemingly insignificant thing you’ve noticed that can be a telltale sign of the difference between a genuinely good man and a bad one?

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u/banksy_h8r 12h ago edited 12h ago

Their humor comes at the expense of others. This can be blatant but it can also be subtle.

If you can't get a laugh without making someone feel bad you're not funny, you're just a cruel asshole.

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u/thepineapple2397 5h ago

Also worth noting how they react when they're the punchline. I've had many coworkers who would relentlessly "banter" with team members but get aggressive the second someone made a similar joke about them