r/tarheels • • 14d ago

NCAAM PJ Hairston Slams UNC For Snubbing Him From Alumni Weekend: 'We're Supposed to be Family'

Saw this a few minutes ago, it's a lot. Think his only way back into favor is to reimburse all the fans he scammed, or at least apologize instead of saying "I made amends with everyone."

https://247sports.com/college/north-carolina/article/pj-hairston-speaks-out-missing-unc-basketball-alumni-weekend-290275688/

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u/jumpman1229 14d ago

Lol, this guy scams everyone and expects to be welcomed with open arms. To my knowledge, he never refunded those who he scammed, but he "made amends with himself." LOL what a joke

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u/AcceptableVisit2415 14d ago

Totally agree. Loved him as a player but he’s impossible to defend now. Can’t cry victim after you scammed the fanbase and ignored restitution at every turn

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u/HotGrowth3530 14d ago

He stole about $300 from me… I have the entire interaction recorded from FaceTime… Took it to the university and to police and nothing could be done apparently. Fuck this guy I wish I could tag him on Reddit.

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u/AcceptableVisit2415 14d ago

Post it on Twitter or something

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u/HotGrowth3530 14d ago

I should post the video of him lying to my face

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u/aj27526 14d ago

Sorry he did that to you.

Got me for $150 and my friend for $150 as well.

A pathetic person

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u/bug_man_ 14d ago

I’m not super in the loop about this except general awareness that he sucks. What was the scam?

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u/HotGrowth3530 14d ago

Selling game used merchandise… And I felt that it might be a little scam so I recorded it but he convinced me he wasn’t gonna fuck me over

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u/ConversationTall2575 9d ago

Lmao that’s crazy. Cause he got money from my brother couple times and the last time he never sent it back.

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u/discoleopard 14d ago edited 14d ago

Damn, I hadn’t heard about any of this but this thread made me realize I also fell for one of his scams.

We went to UNC together, met him in class and became casual friends. Not super close but would occasionally text and say hello whenever we’d see each other around campus. We kept very loosely in touch for a little while after he got kicked out (mostly birthday messages via FB) but in ‘21 I randomly got a long message from him asking if he could borrow some money to help with an urgent family matter, promising he’d send whatever amount I could spare back within a week after he got his paycheck.

It read very genuine, and though I was actually between jobs at the time I figured he had to be pretty desperate to be texting me so I sent him $200. I checked in a couple of weeks later (just to see if all was okay with his family) and no response. Texted again a month later, he finally answered with some excuse and more promises to send the money back soon. We had a couple more exchanges like that where he had a different excuse each time, until I finally accepted he was never gonna pay me back. At the time I just figured he had to be going through a tough time with his family so didn’t think much of it.

It’s wild reading some of these posts because about a year later he had the nerve to text again wondering if I’d be interested in buying some of his old gear. Glad I didn’t engage. It’s really shitty to take advantage of old friends and fans like that, and extra scummy to dodge accountability, but sounds like a bit of karma is coming back around. Good.

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u/AerieResponsible1186 10d ago

I remember getting a dm from him for gear. I never bought anything from him because it seemed weird, but sorry you had to go through that.

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u/Opposite_Example6930 14d ago

Act like family and you get treated like family.

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u/LukeKornet 14d ago

Oh no, it’s the repercussions of his actions

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u/AcceptableVisit2415 14d ago

Yeah, considering he was beloved as a Tar Heel, I feel like he would have easily been forgiven had he actually apologized to fans, instead of sweeping under the rug.

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u/aj27526 14d ago

Oh let me speak on that.

The man stole money from me, my friend, and countless others from sham memorabilia listings.

He even tried asking for more money, because he quote “had to pay for a funeral.”

I have bit my tongue trying to rationalize that he was in a bad situation or whatever the hell folks have wanted to say.

But when he tried to act like HE had been wronged, it all came back.

PJ Hairston is a thief, and I am glad he wasn’t invited. Zero sympathy for him, as he clearly doesn’t give a damn about what he did

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u/SolemnSoldier2020 14d ago

didn't know this. thanks for sharing

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u/Triton1a 14d ago

You’re not alone here. He got me too. Totally agree with your sentiments.

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u/aj27526 14d ago

It was calculated and intentional.

Keep that thief away from the team

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u/discoleopard 14d ago

I got got too (posted my situation in another reply), really disappointing to learn this was part of a larger scam. I considered him a friend too which sucks. A thief and a fraud is right, he doesn’t deserve to be associated with UNC anymore.

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u/AcceptableVisit2415 14d ago

Many stories like this unfortunately

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u/Teddyturntup 8d ago

Even better he was invited, and he’s lying about this too

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u/PitifulEconomics562 14d ago

Can anyone give me the lowdown on what PJ did? i used to party with him in college for a year and never had any issues with him but im seeing that he was a scammer, which i dont doubt lol, but would love to hear the stories if anyone knows em

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u/SkipCycle 14d ago

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u/PitifulEconomics562 1d ago

Lmao yikes, he never cheated when we played beer pong, then again he probably didn’t need too

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u/aj27526 14d ago

Through mutual connections and Facebook, he pretended to sell UNC and Hornets merch to fans. When he never shipped, he would lie and say he hadn’t been able to get back to the gear to package and send it.

He also was asking people for money to help “pay for a funeral”

He got me for $150 as well as a friend of mine. I confirmed his identity before ever sending him money by both text and Facebook message through his profile.

He’s a sorry ass person who knew exactly what he was doing

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u/Greedy_Actuator5 14d ago

Well, well, well if it isn’t the repercussions of my actions

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u/HotGrowth3530 14d ago

Probably shouldn’t have fucked loyal fans out of their money

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u/AcceptableVisit2415 14d ago

I'm worried he becomes a problem alum, a thorn in the side of the program like Rashad McCants.

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u/jaw719 14d ago

No one gives a shit about what McCants says

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u/AcceptableVisit2415 14d ago

Still creates a distraction and negative chatter

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u/Penaca 14d ago

Can you tell me what Rashad did?

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u/AJayHeel 14d ago

Rashad did plenty. He lied a lot, for one. I recall an interview where he said something like "UNC is writing me a check for $2M, and the NCAA for $5M."

He also claimed that Roy Williams sabotaged his career in the NBA. Nevermind that Roy had never gone to an NBA draft in support of a player, but he did for Rashad.

Rashad says and does whatever he thinks will paint him in the best light, and he refuses to acknowledge this it's his own attitude that's the problem.

His teammates don't get along with him, but apparently it's all their fault, not his. <rolleyes>

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u/Penaca 14d ago

Wow. I had no idea!

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u/Roguescholar74 14d ago

Chose to take the paper classes and then said UNC didn’t provide him a quality education. Led to the whole mess with fake classes. I’m glad it all came out but he acted like he wasn’t the one who chose his classes cause he didn’t want to work.

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u/osphan 14d ago

I’d also like to point out that during his playing days he said his schedule was so strenuous between basketball and academics that being in school felt like prison.

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u/AFlockOfTySegalls 14d ago

Tried to burn the school down with the fake classes scandal because he was an NBA bust.

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u/Penaca 14d ago

The fake classes scandal? That was really fake? Going down a rabbit hole now. (I live outside of NC so I never hear about these things!)

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u/Carpenter19 14d ago

It was fake as in it wasn’t what the media portrayed. Basically, there are - or at least were - classes that did not require regular classroom time. They were more like an independent study, with a lengthy paper and sometimes weekly participation in online discussion forums. Some were likely very easy and some were definitely not so easy. 

Source: Graduated from UNC in 2006 and took at least two of these classes. Not an athlete - was just lazy and frequently hungover. 

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u/aj27526 14d ago

McCants didn’t steal from the fan base

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u/ilmguy1234 14d ago

He scammed fans. You don’t do that and then expect to be welcome back.

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u/Spiritual-Map-76 14d ago

PJ needs to apologize for the scamming if he hasn't and reimburse those he cheated....that said I do hate the few bad relationships or poor ones like pj or rashad mccants

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u/919_919 14d ago

“You were supposed to not accept gifts and luxury car rentals.”

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u/AcceptableVisit2415 14d ago

Then not scam dozens of fans.

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u/FarmerIllustriuos133 14d ago

He was given an opportunity to play for college basketballs best program and pissed it away with his thug mentality.

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u/AcceptableVisit2415 14d ago

Yeah that summer before his junior year, when he would’ve been one of the top names in CBB, was wild.

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u/Spiritual-Map-76 14d ago

thug mentality.......alot of players come from rough backgrounds many of the best in fact...check your privilege and arrogance its a turn off

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u/user_4250 14d ago

Stfu. That don’t excuse being a piece of shit person.

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u/Spiritual-Map-76 13d ago

didn't say it was an excuse doing a shitty thing doesn't make you a thug or even a shit person other then at that time...he shld be given a chance to make it right...u can follow your own advice and stfu tho

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u/jmphippsrx1 14d ago

Did Rashad McCants get invited?

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u/bourbonstew 14d ago

I heard he was invited a couple different ways/platforms. Probably not a personal invite as an honored guest with, idk an itinerary, but more like mass mailing to former lettermen.

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u/Aurion7 14d ago

I'll be uncomfortably real and say I don't care what PJ Hairston thinks about much of anything.

You gotta be real low to do what he was doing.

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u/DarthSagacious 13d ago

I have family members I don’t invite to things.

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u/Montavious5716 8d ago

He doesn’t deserve to included! Sorry ass! 😂

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u/Teddyturntup 8d ago

Not only did PJ literally steal from UNC fans, reports from atleast one previous player are that he WAS invited. So was mccants fwiw

Pj has had a million chances and still is just a shitbag