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Restricted to Gals and Pals The land of no men: Kenya's women-only village.

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u/SparkleSelkie let potatoesšŸ„”bring you happiness 1d ago

The coffee shop in my old neighborhood sold their jewelry. I have a kickass necklace from them :]

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u/Good-Bodybuilder-985 1d ago

Hey so I didn't see him name their brand or even what to look for aside from the village name. Do you happen to know it? I really like the style.

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u/WanJiiRu 1d ago

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u/Old_Supermarket1565 1d ago

I’m so excited I went to this site to support these women and every piece I clicked on, which were most, were sold out. That makes me so happy for them. I will keep trying because I think these would be great presents for the women in my life. Thank you for linking.

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u/Yehrmahm 1d ago

Same, I wish they had a function to email us when it comes back in stock.

As popular as they seem to be they should raise their prices, I would pay more for these, they’re beautiful!!

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u/lmaluuker 1d ago

Seriously! I'm shocked by how cheap all of their jewelry is. These women deserve more for their talent and time.

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u/whirlydoodle_ 1d ago edited 1d ago

Donation link for anyone who wants to support regardless. Hopefully i can get jewelry from them soon as well

https://www.umojavillage.com/donate-umoja-village

Or press PayPal button on the original website: https://umojajewellery.com

(Fixed link)

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u/LeviOsa_not_LeviOSAR 1d ago

I don’t think this is related to the village. Reading their mission statement, it is a South Carolina based group for the black community in Aiken County.

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u/Good-Bodybuilder-985 1d ago edited 1d ago

It's possible the village ships giant orders to this distributor so the prices and shipping remain affordable instead of them shipping individually from the continent of Africa.

-edit Oh yeah, when you go to the website itself it talk about distribution throughout the world!

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u/LeviOsa_not_LeviOSAR 1d ago

The umojajewelry website is correct, but the umojavillage website does not refer to the umoja village, it refers to helping community in Aiken, South Carolina

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u/Good-Bodybuilder-985 1d ago

Got it, good catch!

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u/Born-Cauliflower_ 1d ago

Wait they're so gorgeous and not even that pricey

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u/Plankton-007 1d ago

Thank you for the link. I tried to buy something but they are out of stock on everything! I will bookmark and try again later.

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u/Blue-Eyed-Lemon 1d ago

These are so pretty 🄹 I really like them! Thanks for linking them!

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u/Nowayticket2nopecity 1d ago

I can't find any info on how much of the money goes to the women, does anyone know? The website says they buy it wholesale from the village, then sell it to us. I'm really curious about the cost breakdown.

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u/Pruritus_Ani_ 1d ago

It says on the website about us page that 100% of the money goes to the women, which is great

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u/MamaEarth21 1d ago

Amazing but why use white women to model the jewellery? It’s stunning and beautiful on these gorgeous black Queens! They should be the models!

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u/Cosmolina111 1d ago

My guess is, that's their target market: European and American tourists with European and American money to spend. Show the white women how good the jewellery looks on them, and they'll buy it.

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u/AkkeBrakkeKlakke 1d ago

Thank you :)

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u/Cats-and-dogs-rdabst 1d ago

I want to support them too! I saw a lot of their items are sold out atm. Going to check back periodically.

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u/FiguringItOut666 1d ago

What’s the brand name?? I want to support them.

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u/SparkleSelkie let potatoesšŸ„”bring you happiness 1d ago

I think it’s just called like ā€œUmojaā€ or something, this was like a long ass time ago so idk if they have a website now?

Edit: someone gave a link above!

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u/pruxey 1d ago

"They are not trying to build a world without men, they are building better men"

What a powerful line!

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u/PartyOrdinary1733 1d ago

This is how it should be

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u/IWillCallYouCutie Official Gal 1d ago

I’m sobbing. So Beautiful.

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u/wf3h3 1d ago

"... they sleep on goat and cow hide instead of traditional beds"

I'd wager that those are, in fact, traditional beds.

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u/GottaUseEmAll 1d ago

Shit, I just commented exactly the same without checking through the other comments. Can't really get more traditional than those beds.

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u/MopeyDragonfly 1d ago

I thought the same about the jewelry selling and houses lol

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u/avalisk 1d ago

"abusers are afraid of empowering women because they know if women could choose freely it wouldn't be them" is an absolutely devastating quote

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u/Accomplished_Case808 1d ago

It really is, not sure why it instantly made me cry. Well I know why, but it’s so real! 🧔

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u/ZealousidealSkirt327 1d ago edited 1d ago

This is my plan when I’m getting old. I want to move into some kind of women community.

Edit: I guess we need to start a list of everyone who wants to join, and start planning our sanctuary of peace 🤭

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u/InevitableFox81194 1d ago

Im already doing this. Im 10 yrs single with my daighter and our female kitty. My home is the safe space for all my daughters female friends, I have 1 here regularly as shes been disowned by her family for not conforming to their strict religious beliefs.

Its been empowering having such bright young women, coming here, and making a home im my home for themselves, sharing ideas and being passionate about the world they live in.

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u/ZealousidealSkirt327 1d ago

That sounds wonderful. And honestly, it’s a compliment to you skills as a mother. To provide a safe space that your grown up children happily return to is awesome!!

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u/InevitableFox81194 1d ago

Thank you. I worked so hard to create this space, so that even when my daughter is at uni with her friends, they all still send me messages, letting me know what they are all up to and when they plan to visit. 1 daughter, 3 female friends, all from differenr walks of life, making my home their safe space.

Something sadly, my mother never achieved for me.

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u/ZealousidealSkirt327 1d ago

My home was not a safe space neither. Unfortunately I don’t have children, but the home I created with my partner is my safe space now. And I love it so much. No shouting, no putting someone down, no physical altercations. Just peace and quiet.

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u/InevitableFox81194 1d ago

Im so sorry you had to deal with that, its never easy as a child to realise your own home is not a safe space. But im so proud of you for finding someone and creating that safe soace for yourself. I dont recommend bringing children into this modern day world, but im glad at least that for the one child I have I raised a strong, independent, young woman who has found her people.

Have a lovely weekend, you truly deserve it ā¤ļø

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u/ZealousidealSkirt327 1d ago

You can really be proud of yourself and your kid! Thank you for your kind words ā¤ļø

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u/ButtBread98 1d ago

Can I come over? I’ll bring snacks.

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u/InevitableFox81194 1d ago

Absolutely.. bring your pj's.

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u/rainbwbrightisntpunk 1d ago

All the ladies over 40 I know want a golden girls home/society. Every one wants a part of this

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u/emilygoldfinch410 1d ago

Lots of us under 40 want to join!

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u/AsukaAshLei 1d ago

When we start building? šŸ‘€

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u/BrownSugarBare 1d ago

I want to do it now. I'm not old but that seems like heaven to me

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u/freshlysqueezed93 1d ago

I would totally invest in this!

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u/ImagineFreckles 1d ago

I didn’t know until now that I want it too!:)

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u/Gardener_of_Weeden 1d ago

I will admit We will need some younger stronger women - Sorry I do NOT have the strength I had in my 30's, so moving furniture etc I need to hire someone - or ask sweetly for help ( little old lady syndrome LOL). My fantasy is to have someone strong enough to carry my laundry etc, tall enough to reach the top shelves, limber enough to reach the bottom shelves, and loving enough to laugh at my jokes

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u/heldaway 1d ago

I literally daydream about this.

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u/ButtBread98 1d ago

I would love that. Just a village of women helping each other out.

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u/DaisyHotCakes 1d ago

My old coworker and I joked about having a commune by the sea. Living in tiny houses high on the bluffs, growing our food, hunting/fishing, growing weed and selling it to dispensaries, and growing hops (related to cannabis!) for brewing some kick ass IPAs.

Our only stipulation was no dudes. We had women for each ā€œjobā€ who had some measure of expertise who we knew and were into the commune idea. It is supposed to be our retirement plan but maybe we will move up our timeline and allow partners. But only if they’re cool and understand they are entering a little egalitarian society that can easily become a matriarchy if they start being dicks.

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u/APladyleaningS 1d ago

Sign me up please āœ‹ļø

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u/TubbyPachyderm 1d ago

I’ll join youĀ 

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u/socialmediaignorant 1d ago

Best friends and I are planning one already too! I really look forward to it, even though I love my husband. Men are just hard to live with for me. We have plans to have houses connected by a skywalk. A girl can dream…

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u/sweetpsych78 Official Gal 1d ago

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u/a-little-spill 1d ago

I wish I could go there to buy some of their jewelry and support their cause. I love these women and what they have done for the betterment of humanity, and their jewelry is sublime!

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u/vegasbywayofLA 1d ago

I haven't done my due diligence on them yet, but I found 2 links for how to support these women and women in their region, for those who are asking.

freundeskreis Umoja

Samburu Women's Trust

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u/DaisyHotCakes 1d ago

Thanks for sharing! I really want to get involved with the Samburu Women’s Trust somehow. I absolutely love what they’re doing.

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u/nap---enthusiast 1d ago

Does anyone know how I can support this community?

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u/AdKindly18 1d ago

Another poster shared a link to their jewellery site

https://www.reddit.com/r/justgalsbeingchicks/s/7KLnNRbHLL

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u/nap---enthusiast 1d ago

Thank you!

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u/GottaUseEmAll 1d ago

"They sleep on goat and cow hide instead of traditional beds".

Those ARE traditional beds! That's literally their tradition.Ā 

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u/SlightAnything4909 1d ago

Based on their clothing, these women likely belong to the Massai, a herding tribe living in Tanzania and Kenya. The colorful cloaks and large bead disc necklaces are their traditional clothes. In many regions, it's still common for Massai men to have multiple wives. FGM is also still widespread though some groups have disavowed it.

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u/Evelyns_Human 1d ago

Website says they are Samburu. Similar customs though

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u/SlightAnything4909 1d ago

Good to know, thank you!

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u/heldaway 1d ago

What’s FGM?

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u/SlightAnything4909 1d ago

Female Genital Mutilation. It's done in a few cultures in Africa, Asia and the Middle East as kind of an "initiation ritual" for young girls. The clitoris, clitoral hood, and/or labia minora are partially cut or completely removed, sometimes the remaining wounds are sewn shut. It's very dangerous, incredibly painful and often leads to decreased sexual function and complications with sexual intercourse and birth later in life.

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u/heldaway 1d ago

Thank you. This makes me burn with rage!

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u/SlightAnything4909 1d ago

It's so freaking messed up! Luckily more and more groups are abandoning the practice but it takes a lot of courage for many women because un"circumcised" women are often considered "unclean".

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u/PossiblePotato4153 1d ago

And it's perpetuated by the older women, not just what a man wants.

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u/DaisyHotCakes 1d ago

Sometimes tradition leads to regressive behavior. Education is the best way to counter it. That plus enforcement of banning horrific traditions such as this and circumcision. There is zero medical reason to mutilate babies/childrens genitals.

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u/PailingRaint 1d ago

I remember being taught to keep period talk hush hush and to hide pads/tampon packages where guests can't see them. By my own mother. About something damn near half the human population experiences at some point in their life. It's not just the internalized misogyny in far off foreign cultures that impact us, this shit happens everywhere.

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u/DaisyHotCakes 1d ago

It is really insane when you think about it for a second. Literally half the population bleeds every single month from puberty to menopause. Why are we allowing people to make us feel badly about this??? Why is a bodily process that legit no one else knows is happening to you somehow something to feel shame for? It is insane.

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u/SlightAnything4909 1d ago

Yep, there's often a lot of secrecy around it in fact. It's seen as a "women's issue" which makes it even more taboo to talk about.

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u/Totoro_II 1d ago

female genital mutilation, it's disgusting what some people do to others

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u/heldaway 1d ago

Thank you. Yes it’s abhorrent!

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u/satinsateensaltine 1d ago

Their clothes are stunning, as is the jewellery. I'm glad they are ready and able to stand up for each other.

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u/WhiskeyAndKisses 1d ago

Is this Umoja?

This is my favourite answer to "women need men for protection", because they had to hire a few men to protect the village... from other men.

(That’s what I read on their wikipedia page)

It’s always a relief to see the village still stands.

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u/xhivo 1d ago edited 1d ago

EDIT: Strikethrough and prefacing with: I misunderstood what WhiskeyAndKisses was saying.

The Wikipedia article says nothing about that. It does say that men tried to build a nearby village, open a competing business, and lrevent tourists from going. But the Umoja Uaso ended up buying the surrounding land.

Also, even if they did? What was your point?

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u/WhiskeyAndKisses 1d ago

It’s mentionned on the french wikipedia page, at the very end.

And yes, I must clarify : I don’t mean "women need men hon hon", I'm mocking this kind of statement because people who say it always ommit against who women "need men for protection". (Usually other men)

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u/xhivo 1d ago

OK, I'm just stupid lol. Because I didn't get that part the first time reading it.

Thank you for politely explaining it šŸ˜…

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u/maRthbaum_kEkstyniCe 1d ago

You're not stupid! Their comment was very cryptic and unclear, don't feel bad

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u/gltovar 1d ago

High five for being civil while talking through a misunderstanding on the internet.

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u/InevitableFox81194 1d ago

This has been a brilliant exchange. A misunderstanding and corrections made without any attacks or criticism.

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u/MamaOnica 1d ago

"This is my favourite answer to "women need men for protection", because they had to hire a few men to protect the village... from other men."

That was all he really wanted to say.

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u/xhivo 1d ago

I was a bit slow to get it. Thank you.

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u/astronautical 1d ago

Is this Umoja?

yes, the video states as such.

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u/glitterdunk 1d ago

I hope they continue to stay safeā¤ļøšŸ’Ŗ

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u/Moody_Immortal_1 1d ago

**Trigger Warning**

Ah beloved sisters, all. This was beautiful to see and it stirred some sleeping memories living in the dust of my "before".

Aren't we all truly each other? I didn't always think that. In my before I felt alone. I was scared. I lived in fear for my life. My then partner was sitting on the bed with several weapons scattered. He was cleaning them. I walked into the room to put something away. I was folding something with my back to him when I heard "I wonder what would happen if one of these accidentally went off...in your face?"

Then the feeling of my entire being seemed like it turned to something like stone. I turned, slowly and looked at him. He was smiling and laughing to myself as he continued to clean them.

And now, breath......that was in the before.....this is today. An entire lifetime away now.

My heart hears what is being said here and from these amazing Gal/Chicks. They are survivors, yes. And they are like the facets of a diamond. Multidimensional, beautiful, sparkly, intense and so incredibly strong.

Today is just a Saturday in this life. And each of us are breathing the air and thinking our thoughts as we go about our days/nights. But one thing will be true for me, forever. We are one. Without you, you being so many countless gal/chicks I've met on this road, held me up. Walked me home. Gave me time. Gave me grace. Ultimately giving me back...myself.

This was a beautiful reminder of what allowing someone to heal and building a support network of like-minded people can do. Just imagine! ā¤ļø

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u/mithril2020 1d ago

Wow this took me back 30yrs.

I had a boyfriend tell me to look in a mirror.
There was a red laser pointing to the middle of my forehead.

I had surprise visited him one day and the entire floor had very powerful weapons.

The silent laser pointing was a lethal warning.

He was a law student. Towards the end fade away he said he needed to know the law to break the law

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u/sillybilly8102 1d ago

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u/AGorgeousComedy 1d ago

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u/Oldnbold22 1d ago

It must be a paradise.Ā 

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u/Defiant-Handle7682 1d ago

they say if you educate a man, you educate one man. if you educate a woman, you educate a household. thank you for showcasing this "alternative living" community.

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u/theflush1980 1d ago

It’s sad that it is necessary, but so happy for them that they’ve created a peaceful place to live.

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u/Slysparrow9 1d ago

Women... women are just so amazing. And women supporting women šŸ’ššŸ’ššŸ’š

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u/Shehulks1 1d ago

I swear women make the world better… they immediately invested in a school! I swear, we need women to lead this world.

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u/bukkake-bill 1d ago

Those who say women must submit and that their natural roles are submissive, what do they make of this? Even women born into misogynistic cultures where sexual violence is common won't take shit. You'd think they would get used to it and come to accept it as a part of their life. But they yearn for freedom and for a better life and are willing to fight for it.

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u/freshlysqueezed93 1d ago

I've seen an interview with Jameela Jamil, and she points out modern men work 9-5 jobs, are told what to do like good boys, and don't rock the status quo if theirs injustice.

Meanwhile so many women shake the boat, tell others how they think, support each other and lift others up... It's men who have turned more submissive.

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u/Nyardyn 1d ago

I think the thing to take from all of these stories, for men, is: only if you're weak, you need others to be weaker than you. Nobody will respect you for mistreating a woman just because she does not have the physical strength to hit back. That is the sole reason you go for her. Because you're weak. All women will look at what you do and they will know the sad, little loser you are.

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u/Gardener_of_Weeden 1d ago

I am NOT one to notice/admire celebrities ( I rarely watch TV or movies)- But this is one LADY that has earned my respect.

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u/InevitableFox81194 1d ago

They look soooo happy and healthy.

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u/allshookup1640 1d ago

Ughhh I want to visit these amazing women and speak with them! I’m sure they are incredible and inspiring women. I’d love to hear and document their stories for the world if they’d be willing to share them.

I have two problems. One is I have absolutely zero heat tolerance and burn SO fast. I would NOT fair well in Kenya. I’d have to come out at night like a vampire.

Secondly, there is no chance I could ever afford to go.

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u/Famous-Document1175 1d ago edited 1d ago

I had very good heat tolerance and a skin that doesn't burn too easily and still got a sunburn within 15 minutes in the sun (including my head) in Kenya.

That was before the climate change intensified, so I'm sure it's worse now.

But talking with the people was very enjoyable. Cool people.

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u/allshookup1640 1d ago

If that happened to you with good heat tolerance and not easily burned skin, I’d straight up burst into flames!

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u/Inevitable-Level-687 1d ago

I'm Australian. I can take it!

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u/allshookup1640 1d ago

Okay, but you Aussies are freaks of nature and I say that as the utmost compliment! You guys are built differently. Nothing but respect for you Aussies.

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u/better_days_92 1d ago

Same girl but we can at least support them by buying their jewelry and helping to grow their community and outreach programs. So there's that!

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u/It_britt 1d ago

Nairobi, Kenya has amazing weather despite being so close to the equator due to its elevation (year round avg highs range from 71-82F/21-28C ). Depending on this village’s elevation, it could be similar. So it might not be as hot as you think! Plus, you do acclimate when you don’t have airconditioning Ā access.

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u/Onehundredpercentbea 1d ago

On all the solo/female travel subs my contribution to East and South Africa threads is advice to pack warm clothes! It takes people by surprise how chilly mornings and evenings can be, sometimes even during the day depending on the location.

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u/Onehundredpercentbea 1d ago

I work in East Africa and it's actually a temperate climate, surprisingly even close to the equator. I'm there May-September and I'm often wearing my light down puffer jacket, especially in the towns at higher elevations like Nairobi. I'm cold there far more often than I'm hot!

In fact when I zoomed with colleagues from Nairobi one July, it was 55F and cloudy and damp and I was wearing a denim jacket and a blanket scarf bunched around my neck while the Americans were all wearing tank tops and everyone had a laugh about it, 'guess which person is in east Africa right now' and it's the one who looks like she's about to go apple picking in October. :)

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u/ConfidenceFragrant80 1d ago

Same. I have an allergy to the sun

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u/allshookup1640 1d ago

I don’t have a LITERAL allergy to the sun, though I did go to college with a girl who did, I felt so bad for her. I never understood how she didn’t get a heatstroke. She had to always wear tons of layers and carried an umbrella/parisol to protect her.

She did have GORGEOUS skin though. No sun damage obviously. She looked like a doll

I am just naturally extremely pale and burn so easily. I am genetically made to survive a harsh Scottish winter. Heat, not so much

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u/ConfidenceFragrant80 1d ago

While I may not have been diagnosed with it, I do feel as if I am actually allergic based on how it makes me feel and I have been told I have skin like a doll bc of my aversion to the sun lol

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u/allshookup1640 1d ago edited 1d ago

I would recommend getting tested. See if you have XP or EPP. You can be qualified for disability benefits in most places if you actually have it. The girl I knew had special documentation for housing and accommodation. She had to be assigned to a dorm that didn’t have a window facing the east or the west so the sun wouldn’t stream in directly. That way if she fell asleep or forgot to close her blackout curtains, it wouldn’t stream in on her as directly. She got SEVERE pain from the sun and a horrific rash. It was really bad.

I don’t remember exactly if she had XP or EPP, but it was really rough for her.

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u/FishRoom_BSM 1d ago

I have an actual allergy to the sun. I usually don’t tell people, because they think it’s not real and some sort of made up thing.

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u/allshookup1640 1d ago

It’s absolutely a real thing! I believe you, Internet Stranger!

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u/bc_im_coronatined 1d ago

I dream of living somewhere with no men. Sounds… safe.

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u/Gardener_of_Weeden 1d ago

But as many men like to say - if no men are around - who is going to protect you? the answer is ... " from WHO?" women need to be protected by men FROM men????

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u/vampgirl66441 1d ago

I don't think it's something that they can conceptualize.

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u/XanaxWarriorPrincess šŸ’ 2026 Galantine! šŸ’ 1d ago

The girls in this village are so very lucky to grow up unrestricted and unabused.

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u/2357iforgot 1d ago

Fuck that's awesome

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u/Technical_Role743 1d ago

May they stay safe, healthy and teach many children. Bless them.

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u/JoyRose31 1d ago edited 1d ago

I found out, 43% of the pop where I am has been sexually abused.. 43%, of All the population.. about 1/3 estimated to be kids..

Yeah, I tried to start something like this. Won't say where, but its an island. Basically low income (capitaslist/socialism friendly) commune for women onky, preferred to those of domestic violence. The amount of startup needed. Measurabke, but Feeling, immeasurable. Perfect place, perfect location, safe, little to Almost no crime. The legal and regional bylaws to get thought would be intense. Because its small without a lot of resources, they want to know people who go there couod benefit the island. And not pollute, or take. Which means Preferably, having a plant for containment. Solar, rain water gathering, anything you can. Bc even water there is limited since they're surrounded by the ocean ..

Ive loteralt thought it out down to grants, who to hire. They prefer locals to work ..startup just to get there. Seems impossible, unless I work in mining for afew years, Might be with it to make this .. but There .

Edit: giving this a real award .

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u/allshookup1640 1d ago edited 1d ago

The closest my community has was we have a women’s only hair salon.

We have a high Muslim population in our town and large percentage of that is comprised of women who wear hijabs. The women’s only salon is owned run and staffed by only women. They only do appointments and do they them by blocks for hijabi women several times a day. When the appointments go on, they lock the doors and close the blinds. That way women can take off their hijabs freely in the open area without worrying about any man walking in on them. When a client is done, they escort them out through a hallway where the main room can’t be seen and they shut and lock the door behind them.

The hijabi women don’t have to be taken to a separate room at the back or have it done at home like most places. They can have the same experience as all the other women in town. The fun music, the community vibes, everything without having to worry. It’s also SO cute. It’s pink and very glitz and glam. I just love it.

It’s so funny. Some men got all mad and called it sexist that there was a women’s only place. Suddenly a men’s only barber shop popped up and they shut up. Little did they know that the owners of the men’s only shop are the same women who own the women’s shop šŸ˜‚

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u/CottonTipsMcChancla 1d ago

I mean… it is sexist.

In the sense that if they couldn’t shut the blinds and lock the door they have to go to a separate room ā€˜at the back’ out of view or at home. These women have to change their behaviour and require stores to change their operations because they’re fearful/unable to have their hair out in public, lest they be seen by a man that isn’t related to them.

It’s fucking sexist and oppressive.

To women.

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u/Electricpuha 1d ago

I love this for you and your community! Great twist at the end there too

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u/Gardener_of_Weeden 1d ago

Remember the difference - a woman see's a man with no hat/ etc no one worries about HIS modesty - NOW a woman - If her male OWNER - finds out a man saw her hair - she has shamed him and may actually pay with her LIFE - Not legal ANYMORE - but well maybe a slap on the wrist - they still murder their daughters for disrespecting the families.

EDIT; look into WHY women must cover their hair - it has to do with "angels" and lust.

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u/MajorFox2720 1d ago

What sucks is it probably started as a practical reason for both men and women to keep dirt and blowing sand out of your hair.Ā 

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u/merxymee 1d ago

Those are some savvy business women.

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u/dontworryaboutit26 1d ago

I saw this video in another sub. You can apparently buy jewelry from them!

https://umojajewellery.com

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u/guitarguy12341 ✨chick✨ 1d ago

Amazing šŸ˜

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u/YesImReallyLikeThis 1d ago

Bless them šŸ’œ

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u/APladyleaningS 1d ago

Can we make this a thing around the world?Ā 

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u/NoManufacturer120 1d ago

This is why women should rule the world šŸ™‚

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u/notGreatNotTerrible 1d ago

Can’t help but think this is exactly the Gerudo Town in ZeldaĀ 

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u/igotoeleven 1d ago

Reminds me of The Sanctuary for the Moclan women in The Orville

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u/chibiRuka 1d ago

I’ve heard of this. So the government AND society does not intervene. That’s why this place was made.
Edit: I love their attire ā¤ļø

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u/unsuitableasf 1d ago

This is what social media should be.

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u/rushman21twelve 1d ago

Real life Gerudo Tribe

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u/JobOk149 1d ago

Umojawomen.org

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u/AGrandNewAdventure 1d ago

I bet they enjoy going out for walks at night.

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u/jaybirdie26 šŸ’ 2026 Galentine! šŸ’ 1d ago

Fuck yeah ladies!! šŸ™Œ

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u/Rad1Red 1d ago

Wow, this warmed my heart. Can we support these people? Are they part of the Fairtrade program?

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u/carlitospig 1d ago

Ladies, as I get older this idea sounds better and better.

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u/Meganelad 1d ago

Of course the comments are just full sexism

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u/Rogue-Starz 1d ago

ā™„ļøā™„ļøā™„ļøĀ 

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u/Elvis_livez 1d ago

AMAZING!!!!

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u/terzobbg 1d ago

GET ME TO THIS UTOPIA PLEASE

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u/commanderquill 1d ago

I think this is the first video with a voice over that I actually enjoyed.

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u/DruidHeart 1d ago

There’s something that bothers me about it not being a woman.

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u/Folskyhades118 1d ago

I think it’s a good thing it is a man. Men/boys seeing other men speaking up about something tends to unfortunately have a greater impact than men and boys hearing women speak up. If they don’t care about women, they are not going to care what they have to say. Whereas if it’s a man, they are more likely to listen

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u/commanderquill 1d ago

Fair enough. At least he's black?

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u/Gardener_of_Weeden 1d ago

Sad that we as women have to make "men free" zones. Men free fitness centers, men free train cars, Why - FOR OUR safety. Many of the tings we have used as defensive weapons have been outlawed - it might hurt a man - hatpins ( must be short now), pointed umbrella tips, cat key rings etc.

I have many Transgender friends ( usually m-f) and even they are disgusted at the way these men act ( we joke about coming over to the right "team") Not all men are like this - but TOO many stay silent about the good old boys club - and allow ( secretly admire?) these POS If a group of 5 men are together and 1 says a rape joke and 4 men do not call him out - all 5 are guilty.

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u/Nyardyn 1d ago

I have one question: how do they protect their village from angry mobs of weak losers? I hope the women are armed and not afraid to kill.

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u/Gardener_of_Weeden 1d ago

Never underestimate the power of a bunch of ANGRY women collectively protecting their children. BTW a cast iron skillet is a POWERful weapon, and I am sure they are armed in that area

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u/Born-Cauliflower_ 1d ago

They have had people attack their village before, past husbands demanding their child wives back. When there's a threat, they take turns staying up at night. I don't doubt their ability to kick ass lol

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u/Miyenne 1d ago

Have you ever met peri and menopausal women?

There is no shortage of women able to fight with no regrets.

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u/NerdyWaffles 1d ago

I would love to see something like this in the US

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u/carniehandz 1d ago

I want to go to there.

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u/PoopDirectlyInMyButt 1d ago

They built a school! This part got me. Hope their community continues to thrive

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u/boof_the_rich 1d ago

This is beautiful!

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u/ou-really 1d ago

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u/satinsateensaltine 1d ago

These gals are extremely chicks. What a powerful group of women!

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u/Icecube_cool 1d ago

Wow, what an inspiring group of women šŸ«¶šŸ½

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u/Consistent_Femme_Top 1d ago

I wanna go so damn badĀ 

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u/time2sow 1d ago

Take me take me

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u/BaronessofBara 1d ago

God this sounds like a dream... a place where there's no fear of being harassed or assaulted.

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u/heldaway 1d ago

Women > Men in every possible situation.

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u/Aromatic_Razzmatazz 1d ago

Alapine, Alabama. Even baby boys can't spend the night there.

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u/Ok_Fly2518 1d ago

IRL gerudo town !!

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u/currentlystressedout 1d ago

šŸ’“ bless them all

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u/LeastReactionary 1d ago

Love this. Power to the Women.Ā 

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u/Jelly_Cleaver 1d ago

My retirement plan

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