r/dashcams • • 13h ago

Karen doesn't know how to merge properly

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u/Allout-Okarun 12h ago

As a motorcyclist I’m slowing down and driving defensively. This dude has way too much confidence in his camera.

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u/KitnBlit 12h ago

I guess it will make sure his next of kin get a payout

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u/Background-Common119 11h ago

I taught my kid that the graveyard is filled with people who technically had the right of way. Always look out for yourself!

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u/Gotbeerbrain 9h ago

That's right. You can be right but you can also be dead right.

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u/fksm111 6h ago

It can make a nice message on his headstone. "I was right"

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u/TheseusOPL 4h ago

When my brother tried to explain how we (as pedestrians) had the right of way, I said "we may win the laws of the road, the car wins the laws of physics."

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u/BeBearAwareOK 3h ago

My father: "A green light means that it is legal to go. It does not mean that it is safe to go."

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u/original_cmikey 4h ago

Yep, the laws of physics care not for the laws of man.

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u/NotMyAltThrowAwayOG 11h ago

At fault driver has no insurance and no assets, so next of kin get nothing.

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u/Bloodless10 11h ago

Good thing he’s not at fault then isn’t it?

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u/MotherObsy 11h ago

I think commenter meant that the person merging recklessly there has no insurance or assets, so the cyclists family get nothing and he died for no reason other than that he wanted the right of way

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u/NotMyAltThrowAwayOG 8h ago

That’s the only way what I said happens.

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u/Signal_Werewolf_1955 12h ago

And way too much trust in that driver.

"Just because you're right, doesn't mean you're correct."

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u/alnarra_1 11h ago

"Who was correct legally will not matter to the coroner who is picking your corpse up off the pavement."

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u/Critical-Test-4446 10h ago

Headstone reads: “I had the right of way.”

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u/YobaiYamete 5h ago

I don't think the coroner is the one who drives out and scrapes you up off the asphalt lol, they just pronounce you dead if you weren't hauled to a hospital first

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u/draftstone 11h ago

This is what I keep telling my kids when I teach them how to cross a street. Even if a car has a stop sign and it is your turn to cross, the fact you had right of way will not make the doctor being able to magically heal you. Make sure the car sees you and is actually stopping before crossing.

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u/Disgod 8h ago

The crazy thing is there are adults who think about it as a financial opportunity... A potential lifetime of pain ain't worth a payout.

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u/RIAbutIbeBored 4h ago

In my town that death wish mindset has been passed on to their children. Children constantly jaywalking and daring you to hit them so they can get paid.

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u/Sasquatch1729 8h ago

A friend of ours would stride into the street without pausing (regardless of the traffic), because she has right of way and the cars don't. She was in her 30s at the time. I tried to tell her it didn't matter who was right, what matters is who survives. Thankfully she slowed down a bit because we have kids and we're trying to teach them to be cautious.

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u/BingusTheWonderKitn 7h ago

Just had this experience recently. Hit the crosswalk button and my light turned green to walk. I always watch traffic that is coming into the crosswalk as I walk. I seen one suv that was going pretty fast to be able to stop at the red light so I just stopped walking. They slammed on their brakes when they either saw me or that they were driving into a red light. The suv stopped a few feet past the end of the crosswalk and sitting in the driver seat was an old women, probably 90 yrs old

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u/know-it-mall 2h ago

Yep same.

Green light, stop sign, pedestrian crossing, etc doesn't mean go. It means check that it's clear and then go.

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u/All_hail_Korrok 12h ago

The cemetery is full of people who thought they were right.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Flow724 7h ago

And when someone does something that could have hurt me then apologizes, I respond "Sorry never fixed broken bones, be more careful".

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u/InternationalCat3159 10h ago

Local saying: "Cemeteries are full of people who had right of way"

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u/lasadgirl 5h ago

that is very much not a local quote lol, I've seen it 10+ times in this thread alone and I haven't even scrolled down that far 🙃.

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u/getchasum 8h ago

yea this is 100% everyone sucks here but the camera man needs to learn that the 4 wheel vehicle wins every fight

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u/IcyDisplayGuy 11h ago

Two rights can make a wrong, and vice versa

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u/Smithop2026 11h ago

Three rights make a left.

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u/Kiss_My_Ritz 10h ago

Found the person who writes the code for the Amazon delivery drivers.

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u/IcyDisplayGuy 8h ago

Three lefts make a u-turn

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u/JustinC70 10h ago

"Just because you have a license doesn't mean you know how to drive."

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u/Approaching30 7h ago

The laws of physics outweigh the laws of man.

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u/LatookieNoir 6h ago

I feel you but it's a satisfying video haha

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u/Sammy81 5h ago

Actually that’s the definition of right?

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u/reditding 5h ago

Being 'right' is no guarantee of staying upright.
- alternatively; 'right' or upright? - your choice

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u/Early-Ninja-6431 17m ago

Legally correct sometimes equals sliding down the road

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u/HotelPrudent0331 12h ago

Right? Like son, you're on 300lb bike, she's in a 3,000lb car.

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u/hucklebur 11h ago

For real, I've never understood that feeling of invincibility some bikers have. Even in fight between a bike and a smart car, my money's on the car.

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u/Salt_Instruction_657 11h ago

Once, this guy on a motorcycle tried to clip the front of my car at freeway speed. With his motorcycle.

I swerved to avoid contact. Insane.

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u/Individual-Copy9425 10h ago

My dad’s transplant came from a motorcyclist who did nothing wrong. Humbling.

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u/veilosa 10h ago

alot of times its the gear. you put on a helmet and pads and it makes you feel like batman when of course you're not.

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u/PiccoloAwkward465 9h ago

IMO that's the whole point of a motorcycle. They're agile and quick. He could've easily zipped ahead or dropped behind. That kinda stuff is half the fun for me.

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u/Apple_butters12 11h ago

Yeah people are so determined to be right on principle and get their video they forget that life changing injuries don’t care if you have it on video or we’re fundamentally right.

Also “she tried to run me off the road” and what he captured on video are a little different. I am sure the cop is gonna see the video and be like “ok… this is a little different”

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u/ShinyWobbuffet202 11h ago

Future organ donor. But at least the camera would prove he was right!

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u/Spiritual_Bid_2308 12h ago

He's also in the car's blind spot. 

If the other car's front bumper is ahead of mine, I'm not relying on custom or some paragraph deep in the legal code to prevent an accident. I'm letting the other vehicle in.

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u/Elogotar 12h ago

He wasn't in her blind spot until she drove past him to cut him off.

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u/uuid-already-exists 12h ago

Her blind spot is 360 degrees.

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u/Nizdaar 11h ago

It drives me crazy when someone passes me, then slows down and suddenly we're matching speed and I'm in their blindspot. I always slow down to let them get ahead a bit. Only takes taking the foot off the gas for a few seconds.

People have the memory of a goldfish and forget they just passed me and put me in their blindspot. Only to just change lanes.

Is any of this my fault, especially when I've had cruise control on? No. Can I avoid a potential collision by slowing down for a few seconds? Yes.

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u/Chendii 10h ago

Holy fuck same. I use cruise control basically every moment that I can. The amount of people that speed past me just to slow down right in front of me is mind boggling. I always feel arrogant for thinking it but some people really are just NPCs going about their day with no self awareness.

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u/Aegi 8h ago

Radar cruise control or normal/old school cruise control?

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u/Chendii 8h ago

Old school. My car is old.

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u/Aegi 8h ago

And now what about the people you are talking about?

Do you think 0%, 100%, or somewhere in between are using their radar cruise control and that is why they slow down when they pass you since now they are a certain distance from the next car up?

I think radar cruise control is a large reason that this behavior seems to be more common than a decade+ ago.

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u/Chendii 7h ago

I'm sure that could be some of it, but this happens to me on open roads as well. There won't be other cars around me for a mile and someone will still manage to pull up right next to me.

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u/lemonylol 12h ago

Seriously, there is so little to gain from this.

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u/cvirus3333 9h ago

All about the tiktok views

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u/Apple_butters12 11h ago

He’s fortunate both of them are just “holding ground”.

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u/MrTabernakle 11h ago

That always gets me. Why do people have so much “trust” in strangers!?!! Protect yourself, don’t expect people to protect you on the road.

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u/mexicanred1 4h ago

Do you know who I am?!

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u/just_for_saving61 12h ago

graveyards full of people who thought they were right.

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u/FadedMomentum 11h ago

Same. Someone is driving reckless. I’m slowing down and want them in front of me not trying to push them behind

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u/Defiant-Payment-4425 10h ago

I was gonna say, is it so hard to just hit your brakes for 2 seconds? Seems like the motorcyclist is a karen.

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u/bgravato 9h ago

To be honest, the biker looked like he had a bit of a Karen in him as well... otherwise, like you said, he would have played defensively and not throw a tantrum at the Karen driver...

As the saying goes... the cemetery is full of people who had the right of way...

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u/stilljustacatinacage 9h ago

Even driving a larger vehicle, my driving instructor told me "a lot of dead people had the right of way" and it's stuck with me ever since.

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u/HighwayBrilliant5983 9h ago

Also depending on your jurisdiction, merging is 50/50 responsibility. Where I'm at if I see someone try to merge and do what this guy did I'd be as liable as she is

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u/im_lazy_as_fuck 9h ago

Yeah, I mean, this should apply to everyone on the road, but even more to motorcyclists. People just need to let go of their egos on the road. If you get in an accident, I promise you the knowledge that you were in the right isn't going to do jack shit to reduce your stress or protect you from injury or death.

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u/AsleepHour7763 8h ago

'i've got the right of way' Would look real nice on that tombstone

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u/Mertoot 8h ago

This happens to me weekly due to my commute

It's crazy how it takes multiple honks for people to even bother looking up from their phones, let alone stop merging into you while you're running out of lane to dodge into...

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u/thatdude333 8h ago

Same, I'm staying far away from people in cars doing dumb stuff, I'd rather be alive than be in the right.

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u/pakole1 7h ago

I am surprised everyday when I see videos like this and motorcyclists fighting with full size vehicle driver. I'm not fighting them. I'm not confronting them. I might be right but they might dedicated to make be dead wrong.

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u/B4rberblacksheep 7h ago

I'm amazed to actually see someone talking about driving defensively this high up on this sub. People are allergic to the concept sometimes I swear

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u/rolfraikou 7h ago

As someone who once had my dash cam suddenly die on me one day, I wouldn't even be so confident I had video. Granted, after this I got front and rear cameras (separate devices, not a combined unit) to make sure I always had something.

I'm just not sure I'd have the confidence to say "I have it all on video!" Without actually having the time to review said video first.

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u/pharoh-king 7h ago

As a motorcyclist I’m slowing down and driving defensively.

You should do this as just a decent human being. People act like taking their foot off the gas for 10 seconds is an affront to their dignity.

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u/SmartOpinion69 7h ago

even if the whole thing was recorded and irrefutable, why is the motorcycle guy playing fire with fire? if a collision happens, the biker loses every single time

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u/blahblah19999 7h ago

100%. It would be no big deal to just slow a little and get behind her

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u/BarronVonCheese 7h ago

People who ride around with cameras like this are hunting for these moments. It’ll cost them a lot more than they bargained for eventually.

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u/Same-Field1326 6h ago

Physics laws supersede traffic laws.

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u/IntrepidHero42 6h ago

Also too much confidence in the cops not being utterly pissed when they see what a nothing situation they just pulled someone over for.

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u/CV90_120 5h ago

Bingo. Your rights don't beat physics. The road is full of assholes driving or riding whatever. Avoid them. Don't pit your bike against a car to make a social point.

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u/ganbramor 4h ago

Cemeteries and junk yards are full of people and vehicles who had right of way.

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u/stRiNg-kiNg 4h ago

As a human being I'm not getting the slightest bit perturbed by this happening to me. Moto guy acts like he's been reading all about driving and this is his first time out there for real.

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u/ChaoticPantser 4h ago

There is a certain class of people among my fellow motorcyclists (and this rider is one of them) who are just assholes.

They think they can play chicken with other vehicles and you know what ultimately happens to them? They wind up seriously injured or worse. And over what? Something like this?

Like, dude, let her in. You dont want to be behind the box truck anyway as a motorcycle. Way too unsafe and difficult to see around. So why are you being a dick?

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u/SwordfishOk504 12h ago

No, according to this sub its your sworn duty to use your own vehicle to enforce the law because NO CUTSIES!

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u/Radioactivocalypse 11h ago

Yes and he went straight in on the woman. Sure she was in the wrong but using repeated F-words at a driver was just trying to provoke a response.

He could have had a pleasant conversation, not full out rage spill. A "oh watch how you go, you nearly hit me! Drive better next time!" Rather than "You can't Merge!!!!"

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u/WallEInOrbit 8h ago

yeah let's ignore, that idiot came near to killing him

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u/Bulky-Employer-1191 11h ago

Even a driver in a car or truck should've let this person merge in. She was accelerating to merge in, and he accelerated to block her. I'm not saying slow down to let them merge, but that is smart defensive driving. I'm just saying that she was accelerating to merge in, and that's fine. He should've just not accelerated too and things would've been good.

Aggressively not allowing people to merge while on a bike is some seriously deranged ego shit.

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u/horatiobanz 11h ago

Everyone with a dash cam has never heard of defensive driving. They all drive like assholes. It's like a prerequisite for purchasing the dash cam.

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u/ConnectRutabaga3925 12h ago

the motorcyclist outweighs the desire to live by the desire to be right

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u/Thirsty_Fox 12h ago

Me too. You see it coming and accept it, let off the gas a bit, let her in, and you get to smile all the way home in one piece. People aren't going to be perfect and I've accepted that before my kickstand is up.