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[u/Fantastic_Safe_4172]

[u/OkFineIllUseTheApp]

https://giphy.com/gifs/l41lJ8ywG1ncm9FXW

Doms trying to think of something degrading without it sounding too mean

[u/OkFineIllUseTheApp → u/OkFineIllUseTheApp]

This is entirely unrelated, I just saw it under the gifs tab and thought my grandma would like it

Edit: she did :)

[u/Kaizo_Kaioshin → u/OkFineIllUseTheApp]

Hell yea :3

[u/retrebexx → u/OkFineIllUseTheApp]

wonderfull !

[u/Extra-Ad34 → u/OkFineIllUseTheApp]

Kigi

[u/Great-Ad-8392 → u/OkFineIllUseTheApp]

Kibby

[u/Capital_Bat8316 → u/OkFineIllUseTheApp]

Yeah like it is supposed to be personal and somewhat truthful, but not step on insecurity.  

...Usually just end up calling them some variation of slut :p

[u/Parma_WdS → u/OkFineIllUseTheApp]

You get the hang of it. Not touching insecurities is about it

[u/SilverTonguedShark → u/OkFineIllUseTheApp]

It really is a struggle some time. If I ever made one of my girls cry mid session I might just stop forever.

[u/mastercubez]

Btw the key to it is to know what insecurities your partner has, to know what to NOT degrade about them! :3

[u/Famous_Slice4233]

For me the trick to make a girl degrading me to work is for it to be possessive. If she’s going to degrade me, it needs to be clear that I am hers, and that she wants me even though those criticisms are true (possibly in part because they are true but she finds them appealing in me).

[u/Fit-Bug-426 → u/Famous_Slice4233]

The difference between "my pathetic little bitch" and "such a pathetic bitch" for example?

[u/Famous_Slice4233 → u/Fit-Bug-426]

Yeah. Tone of voice matters a lot too. I have kind of a thing for the tone of voice that is kind of condescending/patronizing but still sweet, like talking down to a pet who can only understand the tone and not the words.

[u/Ferocs]

Don’t worry Local Gay Raccoon, I’m too sweet and loving to be mean or rough, I just can’t do it :3

[u/BoardTwoTiers]

"I just said 'Go clean your room', why are you acting like-?"

"OH GOD NO! NO MORE! PLEASE!"

[u/Existing-Exit2409 → u/BoardTwoTiers]

when you say you have a degredation kink and they make you work at Denny's:

[u/KaleidoscopeOk6440]

The moment something like this happens I'm wiping that kink off my mind and going straight to the next one

[u/Femcel_Bambi]

I'm way too sensitive for a degradation kink.

[u/Kaizo_Kaioshin → u/Femcel_Bambi]

Same 

How am I supposed to be mean to someone I love???

I guess I can since I always call my friends and my brother insults, but it's not like we love each other

[u/notnotDIO]

Real and true but on the other side, I feel too mean when I degrade people :<

[u/cluelesscheesecake]

[u/theforgettonmemory]

But them sounding mean is the best part

[u/DieShowWithDerMouse → u/theforgettonmemory]

sounding?

[u/theforgettonmemory → u/DieShowWithDerMouse]

If they want :3

[u/Mr-Fister-the-3rd → u/DieShowWithDerMouse]

Oh?

[u/No-Independence9104 → u/theforgettonmemory]

Tru

[u/TheYoshiGang]

This is what I worry about whenever someone tells me they're into being degraded >:

If only I had someone to practice on who would get it if I went to mean lmao, sadly I don't

[u/Axi28]

is sounding like you meant it not the whole point? Idk my partner is super soft on the dirty talk and i wish she would call me names or something

[u/Xalimata → u/Axi28]

i wish she would call me names or something

Names like "Dingus?"

[u/Axi28 → u/Xalimata]

lmao

[u/Tlaquatlatoa]

;-; please be mean but not too mean but also very very mean but dont mean it but also mean it and also obliterate me just do that one pls

[u/Lebguin24]

im the opposite of this
nobody is ever mean enough :(

[u/DeliciousDeer1096]

What did I do to deserve getting called out like this?!

[u/EarlyLunchForKonzu]

If I didn't mean it I wouldn't say it. Honesty is a virtue.

[u/EstimateCool3454]

Sounds like they want DDLG instead.

[u/-this-is-a-name]