r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • 19h ago

Discussion She almost ruined a proposal.

This was at Crescent Bay Point Park, which allows people to book it special occasions.

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u/GrumpyScroogy 17h ago edited 17h ago

She is an asshole about it, but i 100% do understand it being annoying as hell if you live next to it. You dont want to hear a wedding taking place every fucking weekend next to your house.

For all the upset people: Yes she was an asshole about it, but something being public doesnt give you freedom of laws and rules. Be civilised in public. Hosting events without permits is not being civilised.

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u/buerglermeister 17h ago

Then don’t move to the PUBLIC park

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u/GrumpyScroogy 17h ago

Being in a PUBLIC PARK doesnt give you the right to be as loud as possible and do anything you want.

There is a reason why you cant have sex in public

There is a reason why you cant have a BBQ in most parks

There is a reason why you cant yell 24/7 non stop in most public spaces without getting tracked down by (local) enforcement). Guess what happens during a wedding?

Can you image people just hosting a wedding whereever they want? Something being public doesnt mean it has no laws or rules and you can do fuck-what-ever you want in there.

If i lived next to a park and people started hosting events every weekend without permits i also would be pissed. That is why she probably snapped. Not because of this one time.

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u/Pillow_hair 12h ago

I kinda disagree. The public parks are for public entertainment. There are people who work for parks and recreation to create programs for public engagement. We have concerts, movies, and festival events for kids most weekends throughout the good weather months. I get overstimulated by loud noise so I can understand the annoyance at loud noises but I also know I can go by moose cancelong headphones or listen to a book on tape.

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u/GrumpyScroogy 11h ago

Yes, having organised events at a park is fine. Having other people random do it themselves day in day out is annoying. There is a reason why its organised....

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u/Pillow_hair 10h ago

But it's public. I get it being annoying and sometimes you want peace and quiet. I'm sure a mariachi band doesn't play there every weekend.

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u/shlomo_baggins 10h ago

It doesnt...BUT theres a great Mexican restaurant a couple blocks over that might :D