r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • 19h ago

Discussion She almost ruined a proposal.

This was at Crescent Bay Point Park, which allows people to book it special occasions.

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u/Pillow_hair 19h ago

Gosh I feel sorry for people who are so angry and negative that they feel the need to try and ruin a monumental moment in someone's life.

Is this a public park? Like just wait a few minutes and they will clean it up. I'd probably sit there and watch the happy moment. Every weekend I'd get to watch happiness play out. Good for the soul.

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u/shlomo_baggins 18h ago

It's a public park, it's a very well known public park. This lady is just a massive asshole.

Source: I also proposed in this park.

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u/GrumpyScroogy 17h ago edited 17h ago

She is an asshole about it, but i 100% do understand it being annoying as hell if you live next to it. You dont want to hear a wedding taking place every fucking weekend next to your house.

For all the upset people: Yes she was an asshole about it, but something being public doesnt give you freedom of laws and rules. Be civilised in public. Hosting events without permits is not being civilised.

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u/shlomo_baggins 17h ago

Yeaaaah tough shit for her. She chose to live in an incredibly busy area with lots of foot traffic.  Weddings/events dont actually take place every weekend in that park.  Comes with living on a cliff overlooking the Pacific ocean. 

Also, its a public park,  so EXTRA tough shit.

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u/GrumpyScroogy 17h ago

As i said i 100% agree, but being in a public park doesnt mean you can be as loud as you want. And i have a feeling all those weddings taking place there ignore that rule. There is a sound limit in public places for a reason. But yeah, girl picked the worst way to adress it. (She is probably burned out / stressed from it).

Almost as if truth is in the middle as always

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u/shlomo_baggins 17h ago

Oki. By all means keep empathizing with the racist while coming up with theoreticals.

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u/GrumpyScroogy 17h ago

Okie. By all means, formulate your entire opinion and truth based on a single video snippet. A snippet where OP decided what to show.... Naive af.

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u/Dashizz6357 15h ago

Isn’t that exactly what you’re doing?

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u/Pillow_hair 12h ago

I live near a school and work from home. Most the afternoon I hear children screaming and being loud. It used to annoy until I changed my perspective. Man recess was so fun when I was a kid. They are out there playing with their friends, releasing stress from being inside, and having the best part of their day. I bought noise cancelling headphones for when I really need to concentrate or the screaming might get to be too much. There are ways we can adapt in this world and not cause these moments to take up negative space on our minds.