r/PoursTea • 🫖 Mod ☕️ • 13h ago

FeministTea👩🏻‍🎓👩🏿‍⚖️👠🥾 Regrets And Perspectives

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u/HeadOfMax 8h ago

I spent almost a decade working myself to the bone while my ex didn't work and just went to school. Every time I saw a light at the end of the tunnel that she would be done and get a job she said she wanted to go to school for longer.

I was so angry all the time as I was working 50 hours a week and doing all the cleaning and cooking while she sat on the couch and complained about how hard her life was.

She took the dog and left me with the kids.

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u/new_to_OklahkmaCity 7h ago

Something like this happened to me before I graduated as well weren’t married but we were engaged I’m sorry that happened to you man

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u/HeadOfMax 7h ago

Thank you