Most likely not joint decisions according to the text. She clearly disagrees. The reality is that she feels the way she feels. It seems like that I am not denying reality. She isn't happy and she doesn't want her daughter to experience the same things. The husband himself slightly examines this himself by reflecting. The texts in his own words indicate a pattern of discussion agreement and failure. Which he admits is his by the statement made by him " this time it will be different". He failed. There is the accountability. He took it. They clearly have had these discussions before and she is not satisfied. She also is taking accountability for her decisions by saying she chose her marriage above all else and she is not happy. She gets to say that and protect her daughter from the same unhappiness
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u/complexdevoid 9h ago
Most likely not joint decisions according to the text. She clearly disagrees. The reality is that she feels the way she feels. It seems like that I am not denying reality. She isn't happy and she doesn't want her daughter to experience the same things. The husband himself slightly examines this himself by reflecting. The texts in his own words indicate a pattern of discussion agreement and failure. Which he admits is his by the statement made by him " this time it will be different". He failed. There is the accountability. He took it. They clearly have had these discussions before and she is not satisfied. She also is taking accountability for her decisions by saying she chose her marriage above all else and she is not happy. She gets to say that and protect her daughter from the same unhappiness