Regrets And Perspectives

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[u/Dddddd92]

Having children and a family and sometimes even a partner means sacrificing somethings and making choices. The mother wants the daughter the choose better than she did. She is completely valid in her perspective

[u/Salt-Lingonberry-853 → u/Dddddd92]

OK, but what the wife said is still incredibly toxic and I cannot fathom why this sub is so reluctant to call that out. It's literally blatant. She didn't sacrifice for her husband, she sacrificed for herself and her family.

[u/Dddddd92 → u/Salt-Lingonberry-853]

You might think it's toxic. I think she was just being honest.

[u/WaffleHouseFistFight → u/Dddddd92]

It’s toxic and it’s the kind of thing only a toxic person would think is ok.