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FeministTea👩🏻‍🎓👩🏿‍⚖️👠🥾 Regrets And Perspectives

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u/Dddddd92 13h ago

Having children and a family and sometimes even a partner means sacrificing somethings and making choices. The mother wants the daughter the choose better than she did. She is completely valid in her perspective

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u/Secret-Put-4525 12h ago

There's better ways to say it. You should never tell your husband and wife that you regret them being in it.

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u/Magnon 7h ago

I mean you tell them that if you don't love them anymore and are seeking a divorce. Ideally you don't just stew in resentment for 20 years though, so it never gets to that point.