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FeministTea👩🏻‍🎓👩🏿‍⚖️👠🥾 Be Better

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u/afishinabirdcage 3d ago

As a man, I also get annoyed when people say that.

Like ... brother ... if you feel attacked when people are criticizing RAPISTS then you might be part of the problem.

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u/Pasta4ever13 3d ago

But also, "Would you hire a male nanny?"

Is there some stat I'm missing where male nannies are bad?

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u/LurkLurkleton1 3d ago

As a former male nanny, I have to say that I was amazing at my job and those kids loved me!

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u/Mother_You_5739 3d ago

And I am sure that you had to earn trust and made a damn good job doing your best. That isn’t the best example in the attached text, but the best response is going to be yes, but only if they have good references, have a proven good police record (what used to be a DBS check in the UK) and comes with excellent references that can be verified. Though, to be honest I would say the same thing about anyone I trusted my children with, male or female.