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u/klako8196 3d ago

It’s always funny to me how these “not all men” guys don’t have this same visceral reaction against religious leaders who preach that women should dress modestly to avoid tempting men. When a pastor goes up to the pulpit, and implies that men are incapable of self-control around women dressed a certain way, you don’t see these guys take the same level of offense to that. In fact, there are plenty of these guys who lap that up.

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u/Careful_Purple2838 3d ago

I (a man, so i dont really have the personal expiriences please correct me if you feel different, i think its important to rethink my stance regularly) thought a bit about the statement the ladt days and i think the better way to word it is any man, not all. Yes, treat every man with the caution of a potential predator, but dont judge all men as predators. And the religious leaders saying that are just spouting bs, supporting that is immoral and those who support that are already on the spectrum of predators as they mentally defend predators as not accountable