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FeministTea👩🏻‍🎓👩🏿‍⚖️👠🥾 Be Better

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u/afishinabirdcage 3d ago

As a man, I also get annoyed when people say that.

Like ... brother ... if you feel attacked when people are criticizing RAPISTS then you might be part of the problem.

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u/Pasta4ever13 3d ago

But also, "Would you hire a male nanny?"

Is there some stat I'm missing where male nannies are bad?

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u/KactusVAXT 3d ago

No. It’s gender discrimination perpetuated by people who grew up with a useless father around the home.

Then again I’m a stay at home dad who raised both my daughters through infancy and adolescence so my wife could work

I have the classic “woman role”. I manage our home. She fills the bank account. Not many men willing to do it but I sure as shit will tell you other men are jealous of my lifestyle

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u/Pasta4ever13 3d ago

Not many men willing to do it but I will tell you other men are jealous of my lifestyle

Probably because they don't know what being a stay at home parent entails (depends on kids ages ofc). My wife is staying at home with our kids and they are all under 6. I work from home so I am able to see on a daily basis what it takes.

It's not an easy job. Your labor should be appreciated. Keep on keeping on, brother. ✊