r/AskReddit • u/AuthorConfident9386 • 13h ago

Men, what’s one small, seemingly insignificant thing you’ve noticed that can be a telltale sign of the difference between a genuinely good man and a bad one?

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u/trunksfreak 8h ago

True leadership is leading by example. If you refuse to be at the front lines with those you manage, then all you are is a boss, not a leader. It takes a special kind of person to lead by example and usually those are the ones who are worthy of the position of leader, but don't want to be in that position.

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u/Bosco215 2h ago

When I was in the military I was asked if I wanted to go to the promotion board. I said no I don't think I'm ready. My platoon sgt disagreed and said that's what lets him know I am ready.