Men, what’s one small, seemingly insignificant thing you’ve noticed that can be a telltale sign of the difference between a genuinely good man and a bad one?

[u/AuthorConfident9386]

[u/dr__paco]

This is why I believe a lot of women think they like "kind, decent" men and they end up being cheated or worst...

Yeah, you should heard that kind decent funny guy when there are no women around...

[u/jerog1 → u/dr__paco]

I have the opposite experience - I’m a guy and often really toxic men are nice around me and then act really shitty to women. I guess because they care to earn my respect and mask their shittier behaviour.

It used to be shocking when I’d hear horror stories about a dude I assumed was cool. It’s less surprising now

[u/dr__paco → u/jerog1]

Yeah but im sure those men arent succesful with women. Those are a different type of men.