r/AskReddit • u/AuthorConfident9386 • 13h ago

Men, what’s one small, seemingly insignificant thing you’ve noticed that can be a telltale sign of the difference between a genuinely good man and a bad one?

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u/spotsthefirst 12h ago

Integrity, if they lying over small shit, they lying about everything, and will do fucking gymnastics too cover their bases.

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u/ezgihatun 10h ago

My ex went from “i tell you anything and everything” to “i didn’t tell you about that one thing but it was harmless” to “i only lied to you about SMALL things never BIG things”.

He actually said that last sentence out loud, I’m not paraphrasing.

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u/spotsthefirst 10h ago

As a man I'd like to apologize for every boy in the dating pool, there simply isn't enough legit outreach for these poor, dumb bastards, I hope you find someone who never feels the need to "shelter" you from the truth.