r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • 18h ago

Discussion She almost ruined a proposal.

This was at Crescent Bay Point Park, which allows people to book it special occasions.

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u/BorderPractical1368 13h ago

And why does she care? They weren't hurting anyone or anything.

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u/Exciting-Delivery-96 10h ago

She’s likely powerless in most of her life. She sees people that she values as “less than” and wants to feel powerful.
She leaves frustrated and goes to the thing she thinks will hurt the most, racism.

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u/PaRuSkLu 9h ago

As much as I loathe the over the top proposal trend, this woman is a see you next Tuesday… she’s probably a miserable bitch everywhere she goes.

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u/super-hot-burna 7h ago

because she sucks, dude.

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u/ImageAvailable7003 12h ago

I think she was being excluded from the greenspace. The city website states "Recreational use of City parks is on a first-come, first-served basis. The City does not reserve or rent parks or barbecue facilities for parties, events or gatherings of any kind." OP's description seems misleading.

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u/ILoveRawChicken 2h ago

Were they not there FIRST?

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u/ImageAvailable7003 2h ago

You get swing and the parking spot if you get there first, not the entire park!

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u/ILoveRawChicken 2h ago

Good thing they didn’t have the entire park bud 

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u/HarambeTooSoon 12h ago

She explains it. She lives there and wants to make use of her local public space with having to feel like she's imposing because people are staging and filming content for social media in the park. It happens all the time and she's frustrated.

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u/MicrosoftExcel2016 11h ago

“She’s frustrated” is generous with the “go back to Mexico” comment she gave. I would be a little more sympathetic if not for that

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u/HarambeTooSoon 11h ago

Without question that lady lost her cool and got bigoted with her words. I'm not defending her words. 

However, as an adult who doesnt care about pandering to other redditors, Im also able to freely acknowledge that people blocking public trails, stagging and engaging in commercial photography in a public park and constantly imposing upon this lady's use of her local park is only going to end up with her getting upset and lashing out and saying things she probably regrets. 

The people recording this video are NO DIFFERENT than when tiktokers get upset that people keep walking in front of the camera phone shots in public spaces. 

If you had tiktokers traveling for miles to come film content next to your house and constantly asking you not walk your dog in your local park because they were filming content you'd eventually get upset too and you'd probably end up saying things you'd regret too.

Everyone keeps saying  "its only 30 minutes" ... but this is the 100th time this year that it's "only" been 30 minutes for that lady walking her dog. 

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u/MicrosoftExcel2016 11h ago

I stopped reading at “adult who doesn’t care about pandering to other Redditors”. Be serious man. I was responding in earnest. Tf

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u/Specific-Host606 10h ago

In what way were they imposing on her? Did they try to force her out of the area in some way?

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u/Holiday_Regular9794 9h ago

Nope, she was able to freely walk her dog with no problem. And besides they said they were able to reserve the area

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u/HarambeTooSoon 10h ago

Do you see the trail?

Do you see how the trail winds directly behind the area in which the tiktokers have choosen to film their social media content? The same area where they have hired a band to perform for their social media content?

Do you see how the photographers set up the camera on a tripod and then walked over to the trail to stand there and ask people to NOT USE the trail ?

The people recording this video left out the part where they stood on the trail path and asked this lady to not use the public trial so it didnt interfere with their tiktok video. 

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u/Specific-Host606 10h ago

Where did they ask that? Everything is set up in the grass area.

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u/HarambeTooSoon 10h ago

That's why they are STANDING ON THE TRAIL

TO STOP PEOPLE FROM USING THE TRAIL

Watch the video. Look at the path of the trail in the background.

This isnt complicated. They don't want that lady walking her dog on a public trail because if she does she will appear in the background of their tikitok video. 

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u/Specific-Host606 10h ago

Maybe they were getting a shot. Any proof they were trying to block the trail?

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u/Academic_Flatworm752 8h ago

I don’t become bigoted when I lose my cool. Interesting that you relate to so much with the woman who became racist due to her frustration. Yikes.

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u/HarambeTooSoon 8h ago

Saying something bigoted and being racist arent the same thing.  

When people get into arguments or a fight they say things to hurt the other person. It's not a manifesto.

Grow up. 

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u/sunburnd 8h ago

People who can't keep from hurling racist insults probably shouldn't be getting into arguments publicly.

You know what else isn't a manifesto? A racist hurling racial insults during a public argument. Racism doesn't require a manifesto. Sometimes it is simply demonstrated by what someone says and does.

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u/HarambeTooSoon 7h ago

The the problem with you and people like you, is that you're incapable of objectively seeing the entitlement of the tiktokers. 

You genuinely think because these people have a camera recording that their objective takes priority over all others, even to the point where you excuse them for actively discouraging locals from using public spaces in thier own community. 

Are you aware that racist people are allowed to walk their dogs in the park?

The fact this lady said a bigoted thing doesnt mean her rights to walk her dog in the park retroactively become null and void. 

The people recording this video are standing on the walking path for the purpose of blocking this lady from using the trail so that she doesn't pass through the background of their staged tiktok video. 

As she attempts to pass, they use their words and try to use social compliance and shame her for wanting to use the walking trail in her local park. 

They cstarted it" and then uploaded a video that begins with the Karen reacting poorly to THEIR own entitlement. 

Then the cherry on top for keyboard justice warriors such as yourself is the lady says something bigoted! 

Which in your simple mind means the people holding the camera are righteous and therefore should be able to do whatever they want, even when they are plainly violating the local ordinance that prohibits the exact behavior they are engaging in.

You aren't interested in justice. You are only interested in punishing one of two parties because it conforms with your own prejudices. 

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u/sunburnd 6h ago

"The problem with you and people like you" is an interesting way to begin a lecture about objectivity when you have to invent nearly every position you're attributing to me.

I didn't say the people filming were entitled to block the path. I didn't say having a camera gives them priority. I didn't say the woman's racism deprived her of the right to use the park. I didn't say the people filming were "righteous." And I certainly didn't say they should be able to violate an ordinance.

You supplied all of that yourself so you'd have something easier to argue against.

My comment concerned your attempt to excuse racist insults as something people just say when they're angry. Being angry may explain why someone stopped filtering what they said. It doesn't magically supply them with racist insults they otherwise didn't possess.

If you want to argue that the people filming were blocking a public path, argue that. Their conduct can be wrong without requiring you to make excuses for hers.

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u/Academic_Flatworm752 6h ago

Someone else being entitled still doesn’t cause me to be racist or bigoted. Weird that you relate to that.

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u/Evening_Weekend_8342 8h ago

It's not even really racist, they're already annoying her by taking up space then they start playing out mexican music loudly, lol. The person's a turd for posting it on TikTok too

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u/Academic_Flatworm752 6h ago

They’re annoying her by existing while Mexican. What a nasty woman.