r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • 18h ago

Discussion She almost ruined a proposal.

This was at Crescent Bay Point Park, which allows people to book it special occasions.

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u/Kayel41 14h ago

Because people weaponize the police and hope they’ll end up shooting someone

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u/Aisenth 13h ago

Yes, it's literally a death threat

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u/Euphoric-Cold9592 6h ago

Insane take. Do better, satan.

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u/Comfortable_Wish224 5h ago

Insane take. Hello 911? Yeah some guy is being super aggressive and waving around what could be a gun

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u/Feisty-Maybe7949 13h ago

I have a theory on this. The hyperrealism and intensity of so much violence in our media makes many people less able to detach it from reality. (This is not a comment on censorship, just on cluelessness).

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u/Conninxloo 12h ago

Nah I'd say it's exactly the other way around. It's violence they don't need to commit themselves, and even one abstraction away from doing it yourself, physically, is already "not real" to them so they can stomach it.

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u/Feisty-Maybe7949 12h ago

That’s interesting!

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u/sulkee 9h ago

The US police’s foundation is rooted in slave catching. This is their history. It shouldn’t be a shock that white peole weaponize as they have already for centuries. It’s always been this way. Social media has just made some naive white people finally realize it the last 10 years

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u/HFTCSAU 13h ago

Asking cause I don’t live near this place, but when you have a permit is it posted somewhere for these busy bodies to see? How would she know they didn’t have permission?

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u/thorsbeardexpress 9h ago

I had a wedding in Golden gate Park. I got a permit and it was just a piece of paper

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u/Outuvcontrol 2h ago

Thats why these people love ICE. Fuckin traitors

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u/dealingwithhookers 11h ago

love telling them "fine im a lawyer" and then they just go "o.o nvm"

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u/fiahhawt 12h ago

Mehhhh

This seems like a business who keeps using a park for events involving a mariachi band. She said "this is every Sunday".

If that was my local park I would be annoyed, and I'd want someone to address it because it IS inconsiderate to everyone else to use public spaces all the time and be disruptive to the point others can't ignore you.

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u/Wooden_Cicada8880 10h ago

Several people have mentioned it’s a popular park that is known to be booked for private events. If you’d have an issue with that, you should talk to your local government and not the people following the rules to book it.

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u/fiahhawt 10h ago

Yeah but the other person was saying this was an attempt at intimidation.

My point was this seems like a reasonable level of annoyance. She was letting the couple know, because she probably gets they’re one time clients and don’t understand why she would be fed up.

The post was making her out to be racist.

In some places, you do actually call cops if people are being so obnoxious in public spaces they’re ruining it for others.

If this park has different norms she may not know that. Although I agree the right answer seems to be making a stink with the local government to encourage them to limit how often they’ve got people doing “live music” in the park.

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u/Wooden_Cicada8880 4h ago

The post was calling her racist because she said “to go back to Mexico”. You don’t say those things if you aren’t racist! It doesn’t even occur to you as a thing to say!

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u/fiahhawt 4h ago

No she said “This isn’t Mexico”

That’s fair. A lot of central and South American cultures have an opposite view of public spaces to the US.

In the US if you wanna get loud you have to be sure not to bother anyone else. Your house party can’t be super audible outside, you can’t amble about blasting music at whatever volume, you’ve got to keep public spaces more quiet so that people can rest in them.

In a lot of Latin cultures, public spaces are where you are meant to go and make noise interacting with others, play music, party, and it’s on someone to come tell you to please move it along if you are disturbing their rest at home.

They’re different. Neither is better, but they’re different.

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u/SubstanceMaintenance 14h ago

Ugh hyperbole in the morning

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u/gapingholeoflove 13h ago

not really true.

if you approach anyone you're looking for a fight. it gets heated and loud and potentially violent. people don't care. they want what they want and they will fuck you up to get it.

if the lady approached and said "you need a permit, the park can't handle all this traffic, the grass is... no parking... litter" they will tell her to fuck off.

call the cops. fuck these people.

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u/IndigoOctober8 13h ago

You seem delightful

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u/DarkStarrFOFF 12h ago

Then why did her dumb ass approach them and say anything? Since according to you she should have gotten fucked up. Or was she looking for a fight? Maybe they should have given it to her then?

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u/genius23sarcasm 1h ago

Gapingholeinthebrain