So many people get into bad relationships, and I have to, but what really blows my mind is people in a miserable relationship that then purposely have a kid. Like maybe you thought married life would be different, or something changed during the relationship and it used to be good, it happens. But if that happens don't have kids. You're an adult and it doesn't matter what your partner or family says it's your responsibility not to bring a kid into that mess.
The solution to a unhappy relationship is either fixing it or leaving, not adding a kid, it's just so stupid.
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u/zoobrix Jul 19 '26
So many people get into bad relationships, and I have to, but what really blows my mind is people in a miserable relationship that then purposely have a kid. Like maybe you thought married life would be different, or something changed during the relationship and it used to be good, it happens. But if that happens don't have kids. You're an adult and it doesn't matter what your partner or family says it's your responsibility not to bring a kid into that mess.
The solution to a unhappy relationship is either fixing it or leaving, not adding a kid, it's just so stupid.