r/SipsTea • • 10d ago

SMH Playing hard to get doesn't work anymore

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u/RakeChapman13 9d ago edited 9d ago

And men’s fantasy is Dominating women. It’s natural. But Of course there’s men who want to be dominated by women and women who want to dominate men. These desires are normal and healthy and it can all be done in a safe fun way.

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u/One-Position4239 6d ago

Idk I have zero want to dominate a girl. And whenever a girl I'm having sex with asks me to slap her or bite her nipples and shit or talk dirty I fucking hate it.

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u/RakeChapman13 6d ago

I was gonna just respond with lucky bastard, a lot of guys are stuck with boring Woman but that would be an asshole thing to say. People can’t help what they like and don’t like. You are entitled To feeling how you do bro

There’s more to dominating than spanking and biting But I’m curious what’s so bad about bitting a nipple or talking dirty to you ? I understand that not being something that does much for you but why do you hate it so much? If your girl wants you to do that then why is that so bad? I mean we aren’t talking about anything crazy here like sex in public kink or a poop kink lol.

I’ve been with women who thought they hated things like hair pulling or nipple bitting but that’s because those guys didn’t do it right, they bit too hard and when they pulled hair they didn’t grab firmly at the root- it’s not just about pulling too hard, you can use the same force and it feel worse if you aren’t grabbing towards the root firmly.

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u/One-Position4239 6d ago

idk man, I have a hard time treating girls like sl*ts even if they want me to. I don't feel cool animalistic man etc, I'm just more of a soft romantic guy, who does some sexual shit but don't like it to be animalistic. Something inside my brain says girls are soft delicate and I wanna treat them softly, doesn't mean I'm not sexual, I go for 3 rounds usually, and when I was like 21 I used to go 4-6 rounds in 1 day haha. Just mostly soft or medium intensity sex.

And I'm now single btw, so nothing to feel that I'm lucky hahaha. I'll forever enjoy my basic sensual sex and admire the artform of female body and slowly enjoy the taste rather than go full animalistic.

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u/264frenchtoast 7d ago

Statistically speaking, the most common fantasies that men have do not actually involve dominating women