r/SipsTea • • 10d ago

SMH Playing hard to get doesn't work anymore

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u/foreverand2025 10d ago

It’s better for everyone this way.

Real women have their boundaries respected.

Women that want to waste your time and be manipulative get ditched.

I’m all for working to get to a certain level of intimacy but I’m not going to work for you to actually like me and care about me. I want someone who that comes to naturally and genuinely.

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u/yung-gung 9d ago

Right! Genuine attraction when it comes to dating, cannot be negotiated.
My personal rule of thumb is:
No = No
Maybe = No
I’m not sure = No
Only an emphatic Yes equals Yes.