Regrets And Perspectives

[u/Timbucktwo1230]

[u/NoOutlandishness2097]

Posts like this remind me of my ex and make me thankful I left prior to kids and that I'm currently single

[u/Timbucktwo1230 → u/NoOutlandishness2097]

https://giphy.com/gifs/ZgYBhq1x7L1bW

[u/Aware-Awareness-9616 → u/Timbucktwo1230]

You dodged a bullet for sure!! I am a feminist who actually promotes equality instead of just becoming a misandrist. These kinds of posts are either made up by someone who hates women, or a clueless and insanely immature woman who is scared of taking any kind of ownership of her life.

[u/NoOutlandishness2097 → u/Aware-Awareness-9616]

Yeah, I can see that being true for this post. I will say that the potentially fake nature of this post is otherwise irrelevant to how it reminded me of my past, and made me thankful for my present.

You're allowed to see fiction that reminds you of your trauma and be thankful that you're no longer in that situation.

[u/throwawayeffedperson → u/Aware-Awareness-9616]

I wish there were more people as emotionally mature as you.

My ex frequently made unilateral decisions but then she resented me when they didn't work out. She literally would relive rows we had 15 years ago when we were discussing entirely new and separate issues. 

There are many inequalities in the world but emotional maturity is an unacknowledged one. It really fucks up people's chance at being happy. 

[u/WoolshirtedWolf → u/Aware-Awareness-9616]

You definitely are on to something. Without a tail to the story, who is to say who wrote it and for what agenda. I don't take sides or offer opinions on one sided slop like this.