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FeministTea👩🏻‍🎓👩🏿‍⚖️👠🥾 Regrets And Perspectives

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u/Savage_Cabbage83 12h ago

Agreed. Obviously there is some pain there and they should have those difficult conversations the two of them, maybe with a counselor. But to say those things to your kids in front of your spouse is demeaning.

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u/Theron3206 5h ago

Should have had the conversation after the first kid, though I suspect in the moment she wanted the second child as much as he did.

It's fine to have regrets, but bringing it up like that is ridiculous (and hopefully fabricated).