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FeministTea👩🏻‍🎓👩🏿‍⚖️👠🥾 Regrets And Perspectives

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u/BanAssaultGeese 13h ago

I stopped at the first two slides because, regardless of the situation with the relationship, that's just a shitty thing to say right in front of someone. Or even about them for that matter.

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u/Savage_Cabbage83 12h ago

Agreed. Obviously there is some pain there and they should have those difficult conversations the two of them, maybe with a counselor. But to say those things to your kids in front of your spouse is demeaning.

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u/Theron3206 5h ago

Should have had the conversation after the first kid, though I suspect in the moment she wanted the second child as much as he did.

It's fine to have regrets, but bringing it up like that is ridiculous (and hopefully fabricated).

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u/GlobalLie9576 10h ago

…if it even ever happened.

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u/Seienchin88 11h ago

Nightmare of a wife… like seriously nightmare stuff. Especially with the added info he never stopped her but she herself chose staying with the kids and they also had more kids.

But I guess this is anyhow ragebait… seems after Palestine and Israel isn’t too successful in getting people distracted anymore before election now it’s gender war time… I am so glad people failed to get "all men" trending for long on X…

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u/Ettun 8h ago

It would also be a shitty thing to say to your kids because of the heavy implication that she sacrificed her dreams for them as well.